Hi everyone, I have a question. I've been thinking about this for the last couple weeks now and I just thought to ask none other than my fellow brides on this site for some advice. I am gettting married in Cabo San Lucas, Mexico on August 27, 2011 and have 6 bridesmaids. In the few months to come leading up to the wedding, I'm having my bridal shower, bachelorette party and fair-well reception for those people who can't make it to Mexico. My question is... Is it okay that I ask my bridesmaids to pay for the bridal shower since they are already spending money on their airfare, bridesmaid dress and hotel for the wedding? I feel really bad because they are spending so much to come to Mexico. I don't want to break their bank! What are your thoughts? Concerned....