yaker33 - thank you, I immediately feel better that I am not the only one! I've only gone to a couple of stores and they all tried to terrify me into buying one by saying it won'y be ready on time if I don't pick something YESTERDAY! clgriffi7 - we are in the same boat as you ..... we pretty much have no vacation time to take between April and November, going to be a long summer saving all of our time off for November! We both had a week off that needed to be used by March 31st, so used a few days with family and are taking next Monday and Tuesday off to meet the priest, look at men's suits, pick wedding bands ..... Know also what you are saying about depending on guest numbers. I've seen stuff I want to buy but until I know numbers there is nothing I can do.
I think once I pick a dress and book a photographer I will really be able to sit back and chillax at that stage. Those two big things are stressing me a bit, but once those are out of the way I think it will be plain sailing from there .... I HOPE!