Thank goodness we have this forum so we can all discuss this stuff. Pilar probably hates it We're also bringing our own officiant, but when i asked if we could trade that for something Pilar said no tradeoffs on anything. I am going to have to get my negotiating shoes on! It would be nice to have the champagne toast and not pay extra for it. I've actually been trying not to bug her too much with my wedding still being about 36 weeks away, so I've just been writing down the things i want/think of and then emailing her once every other week. I just dont want to take away focus from brides getting married now/soon. Am I being too nice, how often do you girls talk to Pilar? Regarding the centerpieces, i dont think she ever said how many were included. The packages says it as "pieces" not center"piece" so I guess I assumed that it would include enough for the 25 people included in the package. I'll definitely have to ask her.