I know some of us have talked about this before but anyone else having a symbolic wedding made to look real and getting married at home to save on the $$ and the hassles of all the requirements? Well, we are set, everything is in place and no one knows ... except now my mom knows because some lady at her work decided to tell her that there is no way that we could be getting married 'legally" in Mexico because of all the rules!!! Are you kidding ... ? She was just married there apparently and should know that people do this all the time and usually keep it a SECRET!!!! My mom was so embarrassed!!! I couldn't lie to my mom when being confronted so now she knows!!! However, I did follow all the rules of how many days you need to be in the country blah blah blah so that no one else is any wiser!!!