I wanted to do an OOT bag after seeing alll the great ideas on here but will not have room to pack everything but I really wanted to do the travel mugs but thoes are the biggest things to figure out how to pack..........so my FI suggested we give everyone there travel mugs with the pre travel letter and ask everyone to bring it to mexico with them.....its way eaiser to pack 1 mug then 25!!! i think thats what we will do thanks Mark (FI) for the great idea i knew I loved you!! lol Is anyone doing a rehearsal dinner?? which restaurant is it at?? Finally i dont know if this has been asked anywhere on here before but I feel like I know you ladies and wanted to ask you what you thought........My e ring has a thick platinum band and we have started to look at wedding bands (i want a thin band with a few dimonds on it) and I really dont want to spend more then like $500 on my band, but obv cant get a platinum band with a few dimonds on it for $500.........so here is my question.....Is it cheesy to get a white gold band to go with my platinum e ring? will it look different color, less shiney? And if not is there a big difference beteween 14k and 18k gold? Thanks girls!!