we are deffinetly having an ahr because we decided to only invite 20 people to the wedding so we have a ton of people who want to celebrate with us a few months after we get back
we are getting married in feb 2011 and having our ahr in june because it will be summer then and i want to have it out side. also i am going to send out save the dates for the ahr soon so people wont feel weird about coming to my shower