My sister has been a problem since the day of the engagement...
We got engaged on New Years Eve, prior to the proposal my FI contacted my sister and brother-in-law to see if they could come out with us that night (along with all of our other closest friends) my mom even volunteered to bbsit. They declined (which they do all the time lately). After I got engaged, I texted my family, since it was midnight, she replied, "and I found this out by a text?!" No congratulations, no I'm happy for you, nothing.
So in March, her son turned 1, we attend everything possible for him and treat him to everything we can. She also recently got a puppy, thus her reasoning for NEVER coming to our house anymore. FYI-we live 1 hour away, same distance each way! We attend everything for her, her family, and her husbands family.
So my story continues, after we got engaged she dropped hints like, "we'd really like if you'd get married in this state etc. Since she's never been out of the country. After numerous "hints" I finally told her, "It's my wedding, and this is what we want to do." She told me to not call her, etc. She's my SISTER! WTF.
So recently, her husband came and visited us for a local concert. She stayed home. My brother in law had no answers for me other than, you need to talk to her. Why the heck do I need to talk to her?
Since then I have emailed her numerous times, ideas for dresses, etc. I've asked her to come up and pick out her dress, with no answer and rude emails.
She should be happy for me, and be excited to plan. Should I just drop her? It seems to me she doesn't want to go...
Oh and one more thing, she just informed us...she prego, due in December.
UGH!