Thank you so much for your replies and welcoming words!
None of our are guests are going preferred so we chose not to as well and good point of being near them!
My fiance and I are going for 2 weeks- 1st week in deluxe room, 2nd week in the honeymoon suite. I read that any suite is part of the preferred club, have any of you heard that? Also unlike Dreams PC there is only 1 honeymoon suite at La romana, maybe I need to stop researching and stick to this site.