Hi girls,
Here is my two cents on short hair and getting married. The first time I got married (yes this is round 2 for me) I had short hair and I totally stressed about growing it or getting extensions or whatever (i had a short bob) and would my fiance like it better if it was long. But in the end I realized that I was more me with my short hair. If I grew it I'd just wind up cutting it off anyway and if I got extensions I'd just feel like an imposter.
This time around I have even shorter hair ( a pixie) and I'm not even thinking about changing it. Short hair is who I am and I look damn good in it!
We are lucky enough to be able to have short hair and look HOT so why change? In the end you need to do what makes you happy and what makes you comfortable. But I wouldn't let that image of the bride with long flowing locks or an upswept do change the beautiful person you will be on your wedding day regardless of what it on your head.