It's YOUR wedding, you can do anything you want to! Its all about 2 two. We did a very small intimate wedding at home for our legal day for those who couldn't make it to Mexico. Had about 10 ppl (grandparents, friends with newborn, family members) with a minister. He did a quick 5-10 minute ceremony at our house, then we treated everyone for a nice lunch that afternoon. It was very short, sweet, and intimate. Our Mexican celebration, will also be small and intimate.. just our immediate family.