Lisa- Yes it's my future mother in law. She is paying for the wedding and what I wanted was a small ceremony which is turning into a three ring circus. Nothing I want is good unless she comes up with it. Now we are battling over photographers. I can feel my stress level rise over this. My father passed away 5 years ago and my mother is not in the picture so it's just her and her opinons. My sister helps when she can but I don't feel much support from her either. My FI is kinda stuck in the middle right now and I try not to make him there. I decided over the weekend to take back some control of my wedding, which she is planning like it's her own.