Congrats and happy planning! I think choosing the location and resort is the hardest part. I still haven't! Good luck, this forum is great for information!
Congrats! I agree re: Paradisus if you are wanting an all inclusive. Plus it is about 30 minutes from Tamarindo/Playa Langosta and the surfing there is great! There is not surfing right out of Paradisus however. Good luck!
Congrats and happy planning! I am having the same difficult choice-I am finding it difficult to choose a resort and even finalize a location! Good luck!