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And your right. At the end of the day do you like that she is not coming? Absolutely not! And your so right you will get over it. It's the now breach of trust and hurtful feelings that you must attempt to get over and that is what could make or break the relationship. Maybe wait a few days to see what she says to you first? That way it will give you some time to cool down as well. It will get better I promise! There are so many other great things to worry about in terms of your wedding! Think of those!

Welcome and congrats. You will get tons of wonderful ideas here! appy planing!

While I understand where Allison is coming from the bottom line is it is still hurtful! We chose to have a DW because my FI family is extremely large....Dad is from a family of 14, mom is from a family of 12...with over 45 cousins who believe it or not are very close there was no way combined with my family we could have done it at home. We really wrestled with the idea of a DW because we knew and felt bad that not everyone was going to attend. In the backs of our minds we knew that we would be disappointed should some people not be able to come and I too promised I wouldn't get miffed and when it finally did happened I cried for 2 days. Our case was different then this of course and I think the reason that this hurts more is because it was kind of done sneaky and behind your back. If say you can't come because you can't afford it is disappointing to the bride and groom, but at the same time understandable. To say yes, back out of being MOH and then back out completely is just sneaky and hurtful. Honestly is the way to go. it's your wedding and at the end of the day will be about you and your FI. That’s what is important. Enjoy this special time as it hopefully only comes once. Hang in there! This is just 1 small bump in the road to a wonderful day and life ahead!

Welcome and congrats! Happy planning!

Hang in there hopefully your boss will be able to make some headway for you! There mustbe something that they can do for you. Your not trying to cancel outright just change something as simple as a name. You could alwyas just try calling back again and when going through customer service hope that you get someone else willing to help you out?? Think good thoughts though...things will work out for you!!

Welcome and congrats! I say it's on the beachit counts as a DW! Happy planning!

Welcome and congrats! Happy planning!

Welcome and congrats! Happy planning ahead!

Welcome and congrats! Happy planning!

Welcome and congrats to you on your engagement! Enjoy the speical mother daughter time while you go on your site visits!

All awesome ideas!!!! Thanks!!

WOW!!! Nice pictures....no doubt he'll love them!

Welcome to the forums! And congrats on your engagement!

Welcome aboard and have fun planning! There are many awesome ideas out there!

Hi Emily...from one Toronto bride to another welcome to the crazy world of planning your wedding. I have just recently joined but have connected already with so many fabulous ladies you have such unique and wonderful ideas! Although it can be a bit overwhelming at first, take the time and look around the site and you'll have ideas to help narrow down your search before you know it. Do you have one particular area in mind??

Thanks for all the reply SouthernSweetie! Anyone have any ideas out there for children

What an amazing idea!!! Think that there may be a few of us jumping on your band wagon. I have a quick question for you ladies. When are you giving out your OOT bags, and did you do 1 per person or 1 per couple? Also have any of you out there made any up for children

Hey Stacy, Anyway I could take 100 of your hands and pay for the shipping to Canada? I would be more then willing to pay! They are amazing!!

What a great job! Your pictures are amazing!

Hi ladies, I too have a MS and I love it....tried on 5 dresses and knew that this was the one. 45 minutes later it was mine! Disappointed that mine doesn't have nice names like all of yours though!! Beautiful choices ladies!! JD1248 - by Maggie Sottero

Wow thanks for the suggestions everyone! One less thing to worry about!!! Congrats Erica!! Take lots of pictures! Can't wait to hear all about it!! Bride and Groom + guests + 56 booked and 10 more maybes!!!!

Hi to all you Gran Bahia Principe brides out there. Quick question...I'm having trouble finding something for my centre pieces at our dinner reception. I don't really want to use flowers as we are only going to be in the restaurant for about 2 hours before moving to our poolside reception. Any suggestions

Hi Lucy! Congrats....I'm getting married in October myself. Oct 27th, Bahia Principe Tulum, Mayan Riveria. Hope that the planning is going well!

Hi everyone! My name is Patricia. Our wedding date is October 27th, 2010 at the Gran Bahia Principe Tulum

Hi everyone!! My name is Patricia! I'm excited to announce that I am getting married on October 27th, 2010 in the Mayan Riveria at the Grand Bahia Principe Tulum