Hi ladies.. I am in the same boat.. not sure what he should wear. I am thinking he will wear a white linen suit and the guys will wear white drawstring linen pants from islandimporters.com and I want to find a striped linen white/fuschia shirt.. My BMs are wearing fuschia dresses.. MY FI isnt thrilled with the fuschia but I dont think it will look bad if its striped.. What do you all think? havent found a shirt yet.. check out Islandimporters.com I ordered the swatches for 10.00 and they were shipped the next day. Kenneth Cole outlet has a great deal on the leather white sandals.(not thongs) regularly 90.00 we got them for 35.00 each.. they actually ordered all sizes and will be shipped to us at no additional charge.. so thats one of the gifts we are giving the groomsmen,