I'm sorry this happened to you. I haven't had anyone back out yet and I'm hoping they don't. I do agree that once you break it down for food, drinks, and the fact that it's a vacation Moon Palace isn't really more expensive than other weddings. I know I spent $1000+ being in a wedding between shoes, dress, hair, make up, and going to her bach party in Vegas. I hope for your sanity that they change their minds!!