I feel very awkward about it. I don't know who to invite. By inviting the people that are traveling to the wedding, I don't want them to have to buy a gift as well. They are already spending a ton. Then, do I invite the people who I know aren't going to attend the wedding? Seems like I am begging for a gift as in, "you won't be at my wedding so you can give me a gift now".
However, I do have a lot of aunts and uncles who will not be attending the wedding and I sort of feel like they should give a gift as my parents have given both shower and wedding gifts when their children got married.
Also awkward about the shower, is that I hate them. Attending them, throwing one, and now having one thrown for me. Everything about it it awkward and annoying.