Metal notes galore!! I am so sorry to hear about all of this. My honest opinions and concerns: (1) My eldest brother is also walking me down the isle and I would be devastated to have to pick someone else moments before!!!! Devastated!! (2) I also would have been perturbed if I felt that her "grin" as I began to walk down the isle was malicious. (3) Missing WC..... the entire trip... would be nerve wrecking to say the least. (and I like Nina out of all of WC's I've had over the last 7 months). (4) Waiting 35 minutes for carts??? Luckily, Mark was understanding! Here is a BIG BIG HUG!!!! We plan for this day and its very frustrating (to say the least) when people aren't as dedicated as we would like them to be (or rather, they should be).I believe when Phylicia left, Nina has taken the most of the work (unless this has changed recently). From reading various reviews across the internet, I think its obvious that the wedding department needs some help. Unfortunately, you have to have a bad ordeal for us to realize that although this is destination wedding, A LOT of work still needs to be done once we get there. Ok.. with that being said, I have a couple of questions for you and any other past brides who'd like to chime in.... 1. Do you think it would have been helpful to go to the Gazebo with your bridal party (say before the welcome dinner) and go over the plans at night while no one was there? 2. Family photos done before or after the ceremony? 3. Did you have any contact with the DJ prior to the reception? 4. It seems as though cards arrive as they are available, correct? There are no carts "reserved" for wedding ceremonies? 5. Did you meet with the Pastor prior to the ceremony? Did Nina ask how to pronounce your name? 6. In your review, you stated Nina looked frustrated??? huh?? For what and why? Mental Notes: 1. Bring duplicates of anything that can be duplicated. 2. Designate your own GPJ Wedding Coordinating Posse. 3. Bring your Posse to the "meeting" with your GPJ WC. 4. Request Bridal Party to use bring wedding attire as carry ons. (I personally would just cry if my brother couldn't walk me... it symbolizes soo many things). Did any of you arrive at the resort on Tuesday and attend the Manager's Dinner/Buffet event that is held? Wondering if meeting the management staff holds any weight.