Nan, Welcome to the Forum! It is a little overwhelming at first but don't worry, you'll get the hang of it. Regardelss of where you decide to have your wedding, I think a good wedding coordinator will make all the planning much easier and fun for you. I'm working with Julieta, not only is she one of the best florists in the area but she can recommend catering services, make up, music etc. This is her website in case you want to check it out YOUR WEDDING FLORIST JULIETA your WEDDING FLORIST AND COORDINATOR.
Goooood Luck with everything!!!