Sax Lady

great review. sounds like you had a great time. I think its funny the things they stop you for at customs.

hello Kendall, cnograts and welcome to the forum.

Hello and welcome to the forum happy planning. You will find lots of great information on here.

i'm in agreement with the other ladies dont send the letter because in the end it will probably backfire on you especially if she doent like you. He probably just needs time and then he probably will be able to talk with his family.

Congrats and welcome to the forum you will find a lot of great info on the jamaica forum. I am also getting married in JA in about 2 months

Congrats and have a great time.

It's good to see other LDR's and how they worked out. But unlike most you ladies I dont get to see my FI and actually it will be going on a year because we stay in different counrties. We decided to hold off on the visiting this past year when we decided to get married but it seems that even though our relationship is basically over the phone that we have grown closer. We just have a couple of months left but I kno whtat everything will work out and we will have great marriages although it might be a little more challenging than the coules who are together on a daily basis.

sounds great. happy planning

Well i'm not getting married at any of these resorts but I met my FI at Breezes Runaway bay. It was really nice when I was there a few years ago and they have since remodeled it and I heard it was really nice. FI use to work there. I say if you know that all your guest will be over 14 because they have a age limit no kids. I think this resort will be nice.

I too know about being busty but I am much bigger than you ladies but mostly do to the girls. I agree go into the stores. I got a halter and corset back and that seem to fit me much better but when you do your measurments it should fit your body type. I went and tried on dresses but i got my dress from and ebay seller.

Have a safe and fun trip.

You need to wait because it could be problems. It doesnt matter when you change your name after your married. so you will be fine to wait until after you get back

You dont feel that she should be one i wouldnt do it. I dont think she would mind not being in the wedding.

very cute proposal. Happy planning

I think it is normal part of getting married. You here of all kinds of stories that people go through especially right before the wedding. Hope things get better for you which I know they will.

wow those were beautiful great job.

I think #2 looks great on you.

18 might be young for some but I think if you know that you are ready i say go for it. My parents got married right out of high school 19 and 20 and they are still together will be married 35 years this august. I also know some people from high school that got married right out fo school (guess its been about 13 yrs now) and their still married. I think that at any age the best thing in any relationship no matter the age is make sure you are open and communicate. Yes you both will be changing and growing up but as long as you keep that line of commuincation open I think you will be fine. Good luck in your decesion.

sorry to hear that but like the other ladies said you can also make the replacement your own and special. Good luck with everything.

I'm in the states NC and he's in Jamaica. We decided it probably will be best for him to move here. We went back and forth with this though. We also went back in forth about were to get married he wanted to do it here in US but I told him in the long run it probably would be better (because of all the paper work involved) to do it there. And let me tell you that was a very long discussion. I see you all still have a year. We are down to about 2months but because of immagration after the wedding we will still be apart for a few more months. That will be hard but I told him that in the long run it would be better to be separted a few extra months. And she I agree because of the difference in location sometimes you forgot about what was discussed and the dilemma starts all over but I know in the end we will both have great marriages and relationships. Me and my FI started out friends for a few years before we even got together and I think this has helped our relationship out a lot. I also think that the distance makes you think of different ways to do things and that makes the relationship stronger in some cases.

You can go here and see it I didnt buy it off this website though but its the same dress expect mine is ivory/red. A-Line Halter Empire Waist Wedding Dresses - Style WD0622

Sorry ladies I was just so excited before I went to work didnt have time to post a pic. But if someone can help me with posting pics I've never done it before where do I go on the site.

Welcome Kevin, from another carolinian.

AishaB, those are some great points. Mine is a little different it is long distnace but we live in two different countries so its even harder for us to see other on a normal basis. But you are so right as in any relationship you must have communication and espeically in LDR because you dont get to see each other everydays so some things will come up that most couples probably have worked out a long time ago but your just facing. Thanks for the post.

Have a great time.