So when I started planning my wedding a year ago, I wasn't planning on having a flower girl or ring bearer since I have one nephew and FI has 2, all around the same age and I wasn't going to pick between the three of them. My nephew was booked to go all along, FI's not. They had no intentions of bringing the kids down. So I then decided to make my nephew ring bearer since he will be the only child coming. I order a cute seashell from Etsy to carry the rings, had a tie made to match the bridesmaids dresses. Anyways, final payments are due next week...and guess whose booked and coming now...the other two children. Do I now have to include them in the wedding to? FI brought that up tonight...and I am now wondering what to do???