I wasn't even planning on doing RSVP's - but now you guy have me reconsidering. I was just going to go by the number of people who have booked through our resort. And I'm not sending out my invites until maybe November. I sent out the STD in March so everyone already know the what, when, where and who to call. If you guys have read any of my past post, at this point I don't really care anymore who is coming as long as the FI and I are there I'm good....anyones who comes cool....if not that's cool too! Selfish I know but I'm learning that we have to be that way sometimes, otherwise we as brides will go loco!