So I plan on having a destination wedding in the bahamas AND a party (not formal reception) back home. So I plan on inviting everyone (over 250 people) to both the destination and the party (assuming 30 are going to come to the destination but then again my family is wacky and I never know)....my question is after I send out my save the dates and before my formal invitations what is the best way to know who is going to attending the wedding in the Bahamas?? Can I do something like an RSVP on the webpage or is that cheesy? I am just sending out the STD WAY ahead of time to let people plan and save monet. I want to plan rooms travel ect as soon as possible (prior to the usual few months before the wedding). I guess then doing the formal invite is useless.....hmmm I need help.....big help