Bee, Â What I think the misunderstanding is coming from is that for the entree, you and your FI pick two choices of the 4 for the entire group, say a fish and chicken, or chicken and steak. Then at the reception, your guests chooses one of the options, either Fish or chicken, or Chicken or Steak. In other words, you narrow it down to the two choices that most of your guests would pick and then at dinner the guest picks which one they really want. Â That is my opinion. That's what we have to do for the reception at the Seaside Grill to my knowledge.