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Quote: Originally Posted by KittenHeart You make a great point. I absolutely LOVE your idea BTW of the greek letters and framing the W, brilliant, I've never heard of it before! You've struct my originality chord! I wanted to literally put them on my bookshelf or something so you're right, spending more money on them isn't worth it LOL, hell no! We don't have a lopsided relationship! I consider my duty as an AS bride and a bride in general to help B2B's. I received so much help and asked so many questions for over a year so now I get to pay it back, or forward, depending on how you look at it. CONGRATS!! I'm so jealous! I've never been to NOLA, I just put in some "travel requests" with my travel buddy to go to this year NY (we go every year), GA, & LA. Never been to Georgia & Louisiana! Thanks! I can't take ALL of the credit for the idea. FI came up with the Greek letters and I thought the idea was amazing. I didn't even think we would find someone to do them. Did you see them on my facebook? You are definitely paying it forward girl!!! You are definitely welcome to come, just let me know. I don't want to give off the idea that this AHR will be ultra fab tho. Depends on the finances after November! I do think the weekend will be very fun tho. We'll probably be typsy from Fri thru Tues!!! It's the 1st Mardi Gras I've had off in awhile so I'm really excited. Quote: Originally Posted by KittenHeart Thanks Maggie!!! I leave for the airport in 2 hours and this day could not be creeping by any slower! I had a private dinner, Surf & Turf, tables chairs, white linens and napkins came with it, I rented the Chivali chairs instead. Everyone loved the Surf and Turf, it was delish! Quote: Originally Posted by meghan We had a guest put a deposit down, and cancel. We also just had 4 guests book in 24 hours of leaving! I think we are at 50...not even sure! Mine is still in my account too! And I am leaving right now! Amy, Have a wonderful Vegas wedding! We are leaving right now! The limo is here so my message has to be quick! Can't wait to share when we get back :) OMG Ladies!!! AmyKH, Meghan and Wendy....hope you ladies are having fun for me!!! Meghan - 24hrs? That's ridiculous! I am curious to know how many people are going to do that to us. Or maybe not even tell us and book thru someone else and just show up I'm sure you guys are going to have a great time regardless! Quote: Originally Posted by daniepps You want to come to my meet & greet and I want to come to your AHR!!!!! I know huh? You're welcome to come down and partake in the fun

Ladies, I wanted to let you know that we finally booked the AHR! It will be Mardi Gras weekend 2011!

Quote: Originally Posted by KittenHeart LOL! Bad grass, I love it! No kidding, I'm still devastated over my cake toppers I told the lady that made them and she offered to redo them for the same cost since her costs went up... do you think I should? I mean they won't be the same ones. The same happened to me monthly too, I had 64 people confirm and tell me they wouldn't miss it for the world. 35 showed up. Every situation is different and times change but just know it happens and it is what it is. Just adjust your planning accordingly and move on, they are never worth the wasted stress or tears because your wedding day will still be the best day of your life! I always thought that was funny too (bad grass)! As far as the cake toppers, I would say it depends on what you planned to do with them. For me, I'm going to sell alot of my stuff when we get back or after our AHR if we use it for that. Our toppers, however, we're going to frame. We got Greek letters made for our respective fraternity/sorority and a "W" that we're all gonna put in a frame. That's the only reason we spent that much on it. I guess if it means that much to you re-order it. If you think it will sit in a box forever...don't waste your money. It's not like you don't have tons of other keepsakes or gorgeous pics to remember your day. P.S. I'm so glad you finally asked me a question. Lol! I felt like our relationship was kinda lop sided too!! Yeah, we have 45 people (I think - keep losing count cause it changes). I wouldn't be surprised if only 25 show up. I choose to look at the bright said, that's less money we have to shell out!! Quote: Originally Posted by daniepps We have friends in the wedding party who have a pool so they're inviting everyone who's going to Mexico over for a meet & greet pool party. We have 50 people going to Mexico and not everyone knows each other. We're doing a Mexican fiesta theme and having Tacos, fajitas, chips & salsa, margaritas and coronas. Ooooh! Sounds like fun! I wanna come! Quote: Originally Posted by daniepps I don't think you'll actually know how many people are coming until the final payment is due and it still may be shaky after that! At one point we had 75 confirmed but that constantly changed. We had one couple pay the deposit for their room and then cancel it and STILL haven't bothered to mention that they cancelled. In addition to that stupidity I had one couple call my TA to book a room and by the time she called them back they told her they booked straight through the hotel! The final payments for the rooms were due May 21st. I've had 3 more people book through the hotel since then and more people still saying they want to come. I've already made my payments for food at the receptions and the chairs so I told FI that if anybody else decides to come they won't be able to sit at the ceremony or have food at the reception or get a OOT bag. I can't keep making adjustments this close to the wedding because people decided to procrastinate! Ridiculous!! I actually laughed when you mentioned them not being able to sit down. I had the same idea so I could have the chiavari chairs!! I told my MOH that we only needed x amount of chairs because the bridal party didn't need chairs and the entire time I was referring to the ceremony while she was thinking reception! I laughed forever when she said, "you're gonna make us come all the way to Mexico and we can't sit? I'm glad you got us flip flops." I thought that was hilarious. HOWEVER, if you come at the last minute...we CANNOT guarantee you a chair. Better bring comfortable shoes! Quote: Originally Posted by daniepps Ok so my final payment was due to the resort on June 16th. Tiffany pressed me and told me that she had to have it by that date. I made it my business to have it to her by that date and guess what............IT'S STILL IN MY ACCOUNT! I sent her an email and she told me it had to be approved by management but she's working on it. I had been meaning to ask you how this worked out. Sucks that you stressed about it for nothing. But I bet if you didn't have the money when they asked for it they would have taken it out immediately! Quote: Originally Posted by amandamarieb Don't know if they are still offering the same thing with the webinar but when we did ours (months ago) we recieved a free room upgrade for doing it. Might be something to look into or atleast ask your TA about. I didn't do it, my FI did but he said he didn't learn anything fromit that I hadn't already told him. So is this something that they may offer in the future (before November)? I guess I should've peeled myself out of bed that day! Quote: Originally Posted by amybermuda Buuuuutttt if I was watching my $$ spent but also wanted to do something for my guests I would totally recommend the vans into Cancun or Playa del Carmen. If you need 2 vans - so 24 people or less - it is like $220 for both round trip. I used 3 vans into Cancun and it was $336. I tipped the drivers $20 each too. But those group outings are so easy - you can do the nighttime clubbing or a daytime trip. Maybe find a place to all have lunch - do some shopping - maybe even a free museum or art gallery - then back to the hotel. Its very affordable and being driven in an air conditioned van with nice drivers made my guests feel very special!!! I apologize before I ask cause I know you've probably been over this many times, but what company did you use for the vans/clubbing trip? I keep saying that I'm not going to plan anything away from the resort because my guests are only staying 4 days (2 of which will be wedding stuff, 1 will only be the morning of checkout). So Saturday is the only full day that's wide open for everyone and I kinda wanted them to be able to relax and enjoy the resort. But, I feel like maybe we should have options in place. Thoughts? Quote: Originally Posted by cjb0arder13 All right ladies...I feel like a bad BDW bride, because all I seem to post about are my vents!! Rest assured that I read the thread every day, I just don't always post (mostly because I'm a lazy beeyotch). I heard from my TA today. Azul Beach will definitely have construction during my stay. They're starting in August. They will be upgrading all of the Superior rooms, and construction will be happening most of the day. My TA recommends me moving resorts (I agree), and Karisma has been kind enough to offer me a free candlelit dinner on the beach or a free couples massage if I move to Azul Sensatori. Never mind the fact that I would have had a free candlelit dinner anyway with my wedding package. No other perks would be offered. I'm honestly at a loss for words right now. I do NOT want to start the search all over from square one, but at the same time I'm so angry about the situation and don't want to keep my wedding at a Karisma property because I hate the way they've dealt with this situation. Any advice? I need wisdom! Negotiate, negotiate, negotiate! Always threaten to the furthest point you're willing to go, IF you're thinking about changing resorts anyway (which I woudld hate for you to do). All they can do is say no. Quote: Originally Posted by ~Crista-Lee~ Thanks!!!! It's too bad I won't be able to actually meet you in November. I'm actually in my fifth month now (19 weeks). Just about half way there!! I was shocked to find out pregnancy is technically 10 months long. We officially rebooked today! Dreams Puerto Vallarta for April 2011. April 11th will be our wedding date. Yay!!!!!! I know! I was looking forward to having a drink with someone from here!! But I'm glad you're happy and everything worked out for you. Do you know the sex or do you wanna be surprised? Yeah, 10 months is weird cause everyone always says 9. Since I work at a women's hospital I always say 10 months and people look at me like I'm crazy so sometimes I have to break it down for them. Anyway, congrats again!!

Quote: Originally Posted by amandamarieb MY BM's are wearing Mori Lee too! Different style though and metallic sage. I think that they are great dresses for the price. Nice choice! Thanks for the note about the oil spill. You are absoutly right and I am going to view it the same way. And my prayers are with your region. I love New Orleans! And you guys deserve much better than this! Thx! The sage sounds pretty, I'm gonna have to look it up. We keep getting the short end of the stick for some reason but hopefully it will just make us stronger and allow people/businesses to learn from their mistakes. I feel for people who are just getting some sense of normalcy since Katrina and are going through this now. One of the pharmacists I used to work for always replied when someone asked how he was doing, "Oh, you know I'm good, you can't kill bad grass!" So, like bad grass, we are here to stay!! Quote: Originally Posted by MaggieandJay Mostly the same stuff we all already know. but they explained alot about the food options and booze and seriously they talked about the donkey NONSTOP Any good tips on food options? FI and I are trying to decide about all of that now. I hate I missed it. Quote: Originally Posted by daniepps I just looked at my wedding ticker and saw that it's 1 month, 1 week and 1 day til the wedding. I'm still waiting for the "excited bride" feeling to kick in. We're having a pre-wedding meet and greet this weekend so I'm sure I'll get the feeling then. Time is flying. I'll be in Mexico sooner than I think! It's almost your turn!! If you don't mind me asking, what is a pre-wedding meet and greet? Is that for the bridal party? Quote: Originally Posted by rkf1046 First of all I just want to say a big thank you for everyone on here as I've been MIA awhile myself due to a ton of work - VERY STRESSFUL! But while I was dealing with all the work issues my aunts and grandparents decided to share with a friend of mine at a crawfish boil that we had at OUR house that they weren't coming to Mexico. The worst part was they still haven't told me!!!! That was 4 weeks ago!! First of all who tells a random person they just met they aren't coming to the wedding without first telling the bride? Keep in mind I am an only child and only grandchild and we are all pretty close. My mom has even had several discussions with them about letting me know and it still hasn't happened. I know having a destination wedding is a risk and that everyone may not come, including my family, but really? I've been playing catch up with the posts and have seen that I am not alone in dealing with bad behavior displayed by people whom we've considered close at it relates to their wedding. It's helped me calm down considerably...not that I am glad any of you have to deal with this either...but the advice and support here is AMAZING!!! As though it couldn't get worse, my grandparents are now calling my mom asking why I"m okay with them not coming and why am I so willing to sacrifice them being present at my wedding? HELLO! You haven't even told me yet you weren't coming!!!!!! Not to mention we planned our date to coincide with their date, are using them as our witnesses at our legal JOP wedding and using their champagne glasses from their wedding at our wedding for the toasts. What the hell? Once again, more people that don't think before they act. I'm sorry you have to go through this. I just had someone else do this to me just this past weekend and too bad she was my wedding singer!! So, I completely feel your pain. Quote: Originally Posted by bigboponthebeach I'm sorry to hear this, rkf1046. It sucks when people don't have the balls to rsvp, especially when you see and talk to them frequently. I too have been battling with a few family issues pertaining to our DW so I might not be of much help at this point......but I would like to encourage you to stay focused on the goal and what you and your FI want for YOUR day. It sounds like your grandparents and aunts might have had exactly what they wanted for their special day and you have the right to set your own expectations for YOUR own day and wedding. As much as I'm sure you love and respect them, if they cannot understand that, they are caught up in their own selfishness. Maybe you can make them a big part of your at home vows, which it sounds like you intended to do. Other than that, let your choice for a DW wedding be something you are proud of and excited about! As long as FI is in, that's all that matters. Don't let people, even loved one's, steal your shine. I know it is easier said than done and I too am working on it......but in the end you are marrying your FI and not your grandparents or your aunts. It's all about the two of you and any considerations you make for others are a bonus! Very good advice!! Quote: Originally Posted by KittenHeart BTW, if you want to keep things like your cake topper etc. They threw mine away which devistated me... it was custom made and I had her paint our wedding date on the bottom specifically to keep So just have someone make sure to grab stuff after the wedding before they clean up. Yeah I had a few of these, found out weren't coming NEVER told me, the best was 2 groomsmen did this. I finally had to confront them both on this. Anyways... lame. People don't take into consideration you and all your going through sometimes and it's unfortunate. OMG! After all of the trouble I went through to get my toppers made, I would have a mini fit!! Just our cake jewelry was over $300! And I know you put a lot of thought and time into your details. Did you flip out or what? After all of the nickel and diming they do, I'd want a refund for it expensive or not!! Yeah, this is happening to us monthly it seems. We have people who swear they're coming but still haven't even called the TA (groomsmen included) and we have people who decided not to come and not tell us. Two of my cousins sing, so I was going to ask both of them to sing at the wedding. The older one told me she had to check her schedule since she's getting to be all big time now and the younger one is still on the guest list as we speak. Too bad their mom had to tell me that both of them weren't coming. I've only seen the two of them like a hundred times since planning began. I even brought it up at dinner the other day and the younger one never said a word. Guess I should change my siggy.

Quote: Originally Posted by Mischaka Meredith...I don't know what you are talking about not having the face for short hair!! If anything you just need to find the style that best fits you. I'm not to sure about natural hair...but I heard that texturizers are not as harsh as relaxers and perms. I know nothing about texturizers, but I'm gonna look into them tonight. Thx for the tip! Quote: Originally Posted by heartbeat Meredith, I feel your pain… hopefully this thread will help us out. I also have no clue what do with my natural hair and my fiancé has stated that he would like me to wear my “real†hair for the wedding (ugh) I don’t have a perm so I fear that I will end up with a big afro in Jamaica. I’m sure we will figure out something before are big day. Do you have any idea at all of if you want your hair all up, down, half up and half down…. I’m trying to make that decision and then go from there….. I'm loving the pic that JanineA posted so now I'm confused. I was gonna get hair added and have it half up/half down with big loose curls. I really like updo's but I think I look better with my hair hanging. I tried to post some of my inspiriation pics but I'm not tech savvy at all and have to figure out how to do it. Quote: Originally Posted by JanineA Thats exactly what I wanted to do. I was going to get the clip-ins to make the bun a little fuller....these were my inspiration pics....I probably have like 20! But these two are my favs: Love, love, love this pic. Its different but very classy. I may steal this too!! Quote: Originally Posted by MSBRANDI Meridith, I too know what you mean about your hair woes. My hair won't even keep the slightest curl, so I usually wear it straight. Humidity is awful on my hair which is why I was thinking about getting a sew in for my wedding. Were you thinking about going natural before your wedding or after? My hair doesn't hold curl either! And don't even talk about going to the gym, which is a must since I want to lose weight before the wedding. I left the gym once and my mom asked me why I washed my hair before I went! That's how sweaty it gets. Ironically, I live in New Orleans so my hair is used to humidity. It doesn't really frizz anymore but it has sooo many other issues. I was trying to start the natural process last year and that didn't go so well so now I'm just at a crossroads. I want to be free of the chemicals but honestly I am a little too vain to be ok with what my hair looks like when I sweat. Me not having a relaxer was great until I would start sweating. Too bad I even sweat in my sleep! Quote: Originally Posted by lmuze Ladies, my wedding is in less than three weeks in Jamaica and I don't know exactly what to do with my hair. I have worn my hair short for years but decided to grow my hair unfortunately when I workout my hair doesn't grow and now it's just a about 2.5 - 3 inches (natural). I don't know what to do, I have only wore a weave once and I had it done in Rome, Italy. I wouldn't know where to go get a good weave sewn in here in MD. Boy, do I miss my maintanance free short hair. I am afraid even if I perm my hair, the humidity will end up making my hair look like Don King. I have been wearing braids for the past few months. Any suggestions? Would you be open to wearing a wig? A friend of mine had a hair debacle and hers fell out while she was wearing a sew in. She removed the sew in and got another hair dresser to make her a wig similar to what quick weave is (I'm assuming because I've never had one). Anyway, her wig looked just like her full sew in. I thought it was really cute and actually wanted one myself.

Meghan, I'm doing a little dance for you After all of the stress and heartache it's almost your turn!!!!

Quote: Originally Posted by ~Crista-Lee~ Hey Ladies, I've been MIA for a while. It's been a long road but so far I'm having a healthy pregnancy and things are back on track with planning our now postponed wedding. I had a hard time coming on here for a while, I would literally start crying about the wedding I had lost and was looking forward to for so long but it was nuts because I was sooo happy about the baby... I guess I can just blame the crazy hormones! It looks like we will be switching to Dreams Puerto Vallarta for April 2011. Our TA basically told us there was no way we could get the same rate at AS, but I'm not even sure they checked into it. Oh well... Dreams PV looks like a beautiful resort, however it really sucks starting all the plans and travel arrangments again from scratch. I've got a lot of snooping to catch up on... I can't wait to see pic's from the weddings I've miss recently... especially Amy (Kittenheart) with all of the detail you put into yours...I'm sure it was absoltely amazing! As well as everyone's else's! Good luck to all my old friends and to all the new ladies on this thread! I'll have to check back every once in a while and see how it's going! Crista Congrats again! I'm happy you found another resort you're happy about and that the pregnancy is going well. How far along are you now? Quote: Originally Posted by KittenHeart I am! It's weird, I feel almost exactly like I did with Mexico but far less stress. I feel like it's not really happening I love Vegas and I'm pretty confident it may be our best trip ever we're looking at 30-34 people, I've never been to Vegas with that many friends before! I even have 2 dresses again, one for ceremony, one for partying and clubbin' afterwards. Can't believe it! LOL Can't wait to see pics of these dresses!! Quote: Originally Posted by MaggieandJay Ladies, I am on this webinar for Azul Sensatori and I just got in writing that the Donkey is still available at Azul Sensatori so if you need it I have it! Any good info from the webinar? I overslept and couldn't log on without the risk of being late for work

Hi Ladies, I must say, I've been on this site for a few months now and had no clue there were so many "chocolate brides." I'm glad I have this new outlet to get info and get your ideas/feedback. I have been going through hair woes for the past year and I have to say that once again I'm at a crossroads. I have no clue what to do with my hair on a daily basis nevertheless for my wedding A year ago I got my hair died black and had a horrible allergic reaction. So I tried to stop getting chemicals all together but only lasted for about 6 months. By the end of that time I think I was ready to shave my head (too bad I don't have the face for that). I sweat from my scalp and that was the one of the main reasons that natural didn't work for me. Once I'd leave the gym, it just looked like I needed wash/blow out everyday! Then once I did get relaxed again, my hair was so thin I hated it. So, since then I've had a sew-in. Now that I'm ready to get rid of that I have no clue what to do next. Everybody says that I have "nice" enough hair to go natural, but just in that 6 months I broke so many combs that I got sick of it all. Anyway, sorry to vent but I'm just really confused. FI's sister is one of my BMs and she does hair so I think getting my hair done for the wedding won't be a problem. It's what am I supposed to do now that I'm struggling with!!

Quote: Originally Posted by gingerlover36 wow and you're still going to be a bridemaid in hers? you are a good person!! That's so aggrevating that she expects you to make her wedding a priority while she refuses to consider yours....hang in there!! Quote: Originally Posted by bigboponthebeach And that sounds nothing like a friend to me. Don't know how long you've known her, but it sounds like a lop sided friendship to me. :-( Quote: Originally Posted by thefuturemrslutz Wow. I am at a loss for words. But I guess we will never know people's real reasons for acting like this. In her mind, she probably does think she is broke and sees nothing wrong with her behavior. My friend told me this about my destination wedding (yes, it made me mad and so frustrated, but she really is right): "You cannot justify the cost, location, etc to anyone. You are the only one that completely understands what you are wanting for your wedding. If someone does not want to attend, it is not fair for you to justify why they can or cannot afford your wedding. Bottom line, they are not coming and that's the end of it. Just be happy for the people that are coming!" Like I said, this comment made me so angry, but it also did give me a little piece of mind to stop thinking of all these reasons why someone is choosing not to come. It really did help my anxiety! haha So, yes, this girl sounds RIDICULOUS but don't worry about her. You are definitely being the bigger person in this situation. I am a person of my word. I said that I'd be in hers and didn't want to back out on that obligation. In her defense, I did make it known that I wouldn't harbor any ill feelings if any of them decided not to be in the wedding (easier said than done I have to admit). I did not, however, think she wouldn't come at all. Sad part is her FI and my FI have gotten close to the point where they hang out without us and it seems like her FI was MUCH more excited than she was. When I told them we booked the date and I know it was close to theirs, but I still hoped they could come, his response was, "Why wouldn't we come to your wedding? That's the least we could do since you're actually IN ours!" Well, she put a stop to that immediately! I guess that's part of the reason it hurts the most. He was all excited and she's basically like I'll take it or leave it. My sister believes I'm justified and my FI is so laid back that he thinks I'm overreacting. So, I just keep my mouth shut for now, but if she decides to come at the last minute, I think I'll explode and Quote: Originally Posted by thefuturemrslutz How is everyone doing on their "to do's?" I got my invitations mailed!!! YAY!! I will post pictures soon. They turned out great, but they were SUCH a labor of love. Hours and hours and hours and hours of DIY. Can't wait to see them. To do's Not too good! I did finally get FI to look at the menu options. Too bad I didn't put that on the to do list! Quote: Originally Posted by KittenHeart Yeah there were some candles on the table, definitely plenty of room for candles. Pretty! Love the colors and the lillies, those should go great with either bronze or white blume boxes, good choice! Wow, you are a nice person! I would have let a few things go but may have jumped this ship part way through. Lindz is right what she said and I declined two other weddings weeks before mine but these were mere acquaintenances. If I was in someone's wedding that declined to be in mine, I don't know how I'd take that. That's a little selfish... not only are you spending the money and making the effort for her while planning your wedding she's not doing the same for you, lopsided indeed. Good luck! Yes, definitely lopsided. Quote: Originally Posted by KittenHeart YAY! I'll be thinking about you in Vegas Wendy, so cute we share a day of celebrations My Costco trip is Thursday, nails, tanning and working out and done! Found out while at my hair dressers this Saturday she just happens to be in Vegas this weekend staying at my same hotel!! She offered to do my hair (same one who went to our wedding) for free again and wants to party with us. I was already going to invite her but thought she may not be able to get off work, crazy! I'm sooo happy for you girls! I have to admit just a little jealous too! Hope ya'll have lots of fun!! And your hair dresser....AMAZING! How lucky are you?! Quote: Originally Posted by jazz04 Those of you that have created a website: we are having trouble converting our itunes songs to our playlist on our website b/c you have to have mp3 and itunes uses wave. Any ideas? I wish I could help you on this, but I am NOT tech savvy AT ALL. FI did it all, but if you don't find someone to help you, maybe I can ask him how he did ours. I do know he had some issues adding the music.

So, for my "I don't care about your wedding cause it's too expensive story" I have a good friend who (I did bullets cause it was wayyyy too long): - took my original wedding date - asked me to be in her wedding - refused my request when I asked her to be in mine - told me that since mine is a month after hers, she has to "see if they have money left" after theirs is over to come to mine - chose a dress and shoes for us that total almost $500 - chose a honeymoon location that required plane tix that were $4000 (just airfare) - cancelled that honeymoon because she needed more money to spend on the wedding (although everything was already planned and money was already alotted) - called and asked for my TA's info NOT for info on how much travel was for our wedding, but for recommendations on placed to go for her honeymoon - just got her mortgage reduced over $1k/month (approx cost for her and her FI to come to my wedding = $1600) - and constantly says she's poor!!

Quote: Originally Posted by MaggieandJay I feel you pain on this one. Last week my Grandmother called me to annouce she will not be coming to our wedding due to a news story she saw where 6 people got their hearts cut out in Cancun. I googled it. It was a drug gang killing a rival drug gang. So I called my grandmother back and asked her if she had recently joined a Mexican Drug Cartel and if she did then she might be right and not want to come. AHHH I was really upset at the time but it makes me giggle now! I completely missed that story on the news! I'm surprised my FFIL hasn't called to check the status of his bullet proof vest on that one! Quote: Originally Posted by gingerlover36 My aunt told me she had no money but just got back from Disney. It sucks but just keep reminding yourself its about you and FI..no one else. I am just taking comfort in the fact that I have been to 2 DW's before and you girls as well...everyone has said that they have no regrets. They will be the ones regretting their decision when they aren't in the pool sipping a corona. Quote: Originally Posted by cjb0arder13 The hardest part for me has been seeing FI sad when his friends make comments about it. To be perfectly honest, this whole destination wedding was my idea. FI is a very outgoing, gregarious guy, and he has a TON of friends that he's still in contact with. I'm more reserved and private...I tend to have a few very close friends rather than a ton of acquaintances. I just couldn't see walking down the aisle with 300 people staring at me, most of whom I barely knew. I knew I'd be too nervous and worried about that factor to actually enjoy marrying the man of my dreams. Fortunately, I'm the luckiest woman in the world, and Sean told me he'd marry me on the moon if I wanted to. He says that as long as I'm happy, he's happy, so he's really excited about our DW. I can tell that it breaks his heart, though, when one of his best friends tells him that he and his gf can't go because it's too expensive...even though they just bought a brand new $4,000 couch, $2,000 flat screen TV, and he buys himself whatever new toy he wants whenever he wants. Obviously it's not so much a money issue as a priority issue. That's what hurts me...to see him hurting. He'd never say anything, but I know it bugs him. Quote: Originally Posted by beaz2be Thanks to ALL of you ladies who've helped support about this. Meredith, you hit it on the head for me with this comment. I sent out cards to the ladies I wanted to be my BMS (as none of them, aside from my sister and MOH live here). Probably my closest friend, the one who I'd think of as my MOH if I didn't have a sister and the one who is ALWAYS a rock and I never doubted, called and immediately said she pretty much doesn't think she'll make it. I was STUNNED. One of the other girls I expected this kind of news (I know money's tight etc.) but NOT this friend. The worst part is that I think she's just making a snap decision and not really even considering it. She IS 8 months pregnant right now and I think she's just being hormonal a bit and is unsure of the future in store etc. But the wedding's like a YEAR from now!! (And I'm about 98% sure that the financial element for her is not that much of an issue).... sigh. I'm just bummed because I know marriage is kind of unimportant to her so I don't think she really considers it a big deal to be there or not. It is a big deal to ME, but I don't feel right to pressure her on it. Basically, I just asked her to sit on it and think about it for a bit and that if she wasn't able to come I totally understood...blah blah... anyways, thanks again ladies. Knowing that some of you have gone through this with parents and other very close family members helps to put it in perspective. It helps us who are going through it to keep our chins up I think. I am in similar situations. I think my FI really wanted to change to a wedding at home when he realized a lot of people weren't gonna come. I just really didn't want to feel obligated to mingle with a buch of my mom's friends and other misc. people I don't know at my wedding reception. I'm in a Sorority and my FI is in a Fraternity and I could just see the circus our wedding could become. My grandmother had 10 people on her guest list!! On another note, one of the girls I asked to be in my wedding declined AND isn't coming (by far one of the most frustrating things I've encountered). I'll post that story below so this isn't so long. Quote: Originally Posted by taylorwd Oooooh very elegant dresses!! Love your colors!! Thx Wendy! Quote: Originally Posted by taylorwd Amy is absolutely right!! It's hard to imagine this now since you're in the throws of planning and have incoming negativity, but on your wedding day NONE of this will matter. I promise you! You'll realize that the people who are there to share it with you are the ones who needed to be there and wanted to be there. Having a DW really does show people's true colors, shockingly so sometimes. During our planning DH's family could not stop talking about what a financial hardship coming to our wedding was. I wanted to scream "SO DON'T COME!" In fact, they still talk about "financial recovery" from it. But I'm waaaaaaay beyond caring about statements like this. People can make their own choices and need to take responsibility for them. They also need to realize that this is a WEDDING, i.e. not about them but about YOU! Just to throw in some brevity here: one of DHs good friends from way back (more like a sister to him) just called yesterday to say she won't be coming to our AHR--because she's not comfortable in a bathing suit!!! Okay, now hear me out. I know a lot of us women have body image issues (though she has no reason to, she's maybe a size 6 and tall), but the reason this makes me at the stupidity of the situation is because of how mad she was that she wasn't "chosen" to go to Mexico. She actually hung up the phone on DH when she found out she couldn't come to the wedding. To a wedding in Mexico. At a resort. On the beach. Where bathing suits are pretty much mandatory. Something tells me she probably wouldn't have come if the AHR was in December and bathing suits were not the attire. She may still be hurt by not being able to come to Mexico. Either way, that's one less person you have to spend money on...that's the way I'm viewing things these days. Quote: Originally Posted by MaggieandJay The funniest part of the grandma story is I know she will change her mind 100 times. My mom said my grandpa's response was well then i am going without you because I want to swim in the clear Blue water! (They live in Pittsburgh) HA LOL Go Grandpa!! Quote: Originally Posted by KittenHeart The DJ, Cigar roller and the cake table I would say don't need a centerpiece. My cake table wasn't that big and it would have been in the way, especially since they pulled it out into the center of the dancefloor for me to cut and everyone circled around us. I had candles on the cigar & cake table and that was fine for me. I love your colors! Nice and warm and rich White goes with everything so a combo of the two would be nice I think! Do you know what kind and color of flowers you are getting? So on your cake table was there room for items other than the cake? I wanted to put some candles around the cake. Thx! We're using white lillies and white, purple and lime callas. Quote: Originally Posted by bigboponthebeach Before I headed to bed, I just had to say how much I LOVE this freakin' thread! We all seemed to come together, drop a few F-Bomb smilies, encourage one another, and log out of here with our pep back in our step about our DW planning or experiences. I appreciate all of you and your support! All of you had the most honest and genuine advice and it helped me get out of my temporary DW pity funk. Upwards and Onward! So I haven't been good at the whole to-do's list thingy, so I'm going to ask you more senior or advanced brides what I should be doing with my time as far as planning and preparation right now. I've done the following and I keep feeling like I have all the time in the world, but I know 11 months will sneak up on me and I'll wish I completed more tasks. 1- Sent out STD email and ordered STD magnets from ETSY. 2- Booked photog and paid deposit. What's next Does anyone have a DW checklist or know of where I can find one on here? You're so sweet! I would say start with your dress AND if you're having bridesmaids start with theirs. My deadline for them to order their dresses was June 1st and only 2/5 of them have done it Also, reserve the locations at the resort where you want everything to take place. Quote: Originally Posted by Boam2be Hello everyone, Im a newbie from the uk and just wanted to say thankyou. Ive read this forum, right from the beginning, starting a couple of weeks ago and have been hooked, ever since. The advice and support that you give on this forum is great. I plan to get married there September 2011. Ive booked the hotel but im still undecided which wedding package to choose (silver or gold) so havent got my wedding day yet. Is the gold package worth the extra money, or should i just go for the silver and add extras? I chose the Pearl Package and added on. It all depends on what you want. I knew I wasn't going to use a lot of the stuff offered in other packages. Quote: Originally Posted by amcferron So, for those of you who brought your own photogs, do you mind me asking a ballpark price that you payed?? I have priced two and it just seems crazy, but then again, I have never had quotes for photographers to fly to another country either..... I'm not sure if he would want me to quote what he's charging me, but I'm using Andrew Jordan, the same photog that Wendy used. He gave me a great deal and was very flexible with the price becasue he's trying to build up his DW clientele. He's definitely cheaper than the resort and has a better quality in my opinion. Give him a call/email and see what he can do for you. Cleveland Wedding Photographer-Andrew Jordan Photography

Quote: Originally Posted by amybermuda Meredith, If it was my wedding, I would do both. How many tables and centerpieces will you have? It seems like you'll have at least 5 dinner tables plus maybe a few extra on the DJ table, name card table, etc - so alternating colors might be cool. Always go with what you like!!! We're having about 50 people if the stragglers finally go ahead and book (hopefully no extra people decide to come). So, I'm assuming 7-8 tables. My mom feels like we need a table for just the 2 of us like AmyKH did and I didn't even take into consideration the DJ (which we still haven't decided if we're getting) and the cigar roller. Would he need a centerpiece? How big is that area he works on? I bought vases for the cake and guest book tables. Are there any other tables I'm forgetting? Thanks AmyB for your input and mentioning those other tables. Otherwise I would've been short Quote: Originally Posted by beaz2be Meredith, I loved your website. Very classy design. As for the centerpieces, I couldn't view them b/c I don't have enough credits or whatnot to download. But if it was me I would probably also use a combination of both (if you have 2 designs). Provided you have enough tables etc. Thanks! Like I said, it was pretty easy to put together. PM me if you want to see the boxes. Not sure if you need ideas, etc. It's weird though. I didn't realize I had reached the status of being able to open attachments. I was always the one that couldn't see anything. Quote: Originally Posted by KittenHeart What are your colors? My BM's are wearing vintage bronze and my MOH's are wearing purple. We decided to use lime accents for the bouquets and our moms/aunts will be wearing a praline color. I know this can be confusing so these are the dresses...Bridesmaid Dresses - the source for bridesmaid dresses fashion at Mori Lee Style 266 Quote: Originally Posted by mmc1105 I'm couldn' open it because I don't have enough posts... Hmm, maybe I should stop multi-quoting and anwer every post individually! I'm so glad you were both able to keep it under 10k, that is my goal!! You guys give me hope lol I said the same thing, maybe I should just do individual quotes for each one I want to respond to, but I felt a little responsible for this thread getting to 800 pages! It's good cause there's a wealth of info, but I know all of the noobs get extremely overwhelmed looking at that. We too are trying to keep it under $10k. I honestly stopped adding everything up though. Sad and irresponsible maybe, but I'm not organized enough to tally everything up. I kept it up in the beginning but all of that has kinda gone out the window. Quote: Originally Posted by taylorwd Meredith, if I had to pick one, it'd be the white. But I really like both of them and think you should use both colors! Thx! I think I will, especially now that I realize I'll need more! Quote: Originally Posted by cjb0arder13 Speaking of reading all the threads...I may have to go back and re-read!!! The whole time I was reading, I've been thinking of Azul Beach. Now, it's looking more and more like AB is out of the running I may have to move to AS...which would NOT be a bad thing at all, but I"ll have to re-think all my options! Just heard from my TA. He confirmed that all the rooms are taken, and we've only got 10 reserved. I'm thinking we'll have more like 15 needed, so...chances are I'll have to switch resorts (especially because of the construction). So I may switch to being an Azul Sensatori bride!! I'll hopefully have an answer by next week. Hey, I'm a believer that everything happens for a reason. Maybe this is your blessing in disguise. I do know that everything will work out though and it seems your keeping a pretty positive attitude despite the confusion. Quote: Originally Posted by bigboponthebeach Afternoon my "forum friends!" ;-) I was just popping in to vent and whine for a tad. We sent our STD's out on Monday and we've officially got the buzz going for our wedding. I'm amazed at how many family members have been so critical. Mature adults (or so I thought) have made every comment ranging from "Those rooms are too small' to "Why isn't flight included in the rate" to "Kinda selfish to make everyone fly just to see you marry." I know I shouldn't be so sensitive, and I'm usually not, and I know from reading all the earlier posts that many of you ladies were met with similar negativity. But I'm trying to be a gracious and polite bride and instead I feel like telling people to Shut the F**K up and just stay home if they feel burdened. I'm so tired of responding to people, "Well I'm sorry but just know that we are NOT offended if you cannot make it and we totally understand." I feel like people don't realize that this is an optional attendance and no gun is being placed to their head for them to fly to beautiful Mexico to attend our wedding. My big problem was the fact that everyone thought that we were setting them up to be killed by the gangs/drug cartels As if we would seriously want that on our conscience. Hey guys, come down to the slums of MX so we can all get shot up on foreign soil?! Doubt it!! I really believe that some people don't realize how insensitive they're being when they say some things. Quote: Originally Posted by bigboponthebeach Thank you beaz and kittenheart!!! I'm just confused at the nerve of people. We KNEW going into this that travel for no one, ourselves included, would be free. I guess I'm just starting to see people's true colors late in life. Kittenheart, you put it in perspective when you said even your Mom didn't show up. I'm sorry to hear this and it makes me sad. :-( In the end, you both are right....those who were meant to be there and want to be, WILL. I'm not really stressed, just more irritated than anything. But I'm moving past it right now! And beaz....I've wanted to tell more people to in the past 48 hours than I have in my whole three decades on this earth! I LOVE that sign...I feel empowered using it! I'm letting off agression through smilies....how passive/agressive is that LOL I love the sign too but haven't had a reason to use it yet. I will say that you will DEFINITELY come out of this with at least one relationship changed forever. People's true colors tend to come out when you least expect it. Not everyone will be as happy about this situation as you are (that's something I had to come to terms with). Many people you thought wouldn't view being present for one of the most important days of your life as optional won't be in attendance. But at the same time, some people come out of the woodwork and surprise you. Take it all with a grain of salt, but definitely observe and listen and you will se who is truly happy for you. Quote: Originally Posted by artistique This is sad to say, but many people attend "at home" weddings just to be polite and get a free meal. I can't even tell you how many weddings we go to where the guests eat and leave! So rude, and in such poor taste. The good thing is that for your DW, the ones who are there, are the ones that care. Hey! and less people to feed too! Michelle I completely agree!! Quote: Originally Posted by amandamarieb Ok so I've been off for a few days and am trying to catch up so please forgive me if this has already been brought up but for those brides getting married this summer or this fall, are you worried about the oil crisis? A guests brought it up to me today and I don't know why I've totally been spacing on it and not thinking that way. (I guess I'v got a lot going on.) But now I am really worried. I emailed my TA and she said "who knows what the tide will bring in by October" and that it's hitting Florida now so we can only hope for the best. Ahh. I know this is a very small issues especially considering what the real crisis is and if no good seafood, bad swimming and oil infused water ruins our pictures. Ok enough whining. Just wondering what your other thoughts are. Thanks ladies. So, call me ignorant, but I am less than an hour away from the oil spill and I haven't had to make any major adjustments in my life. Seafood prices have gone up, stuff that we're used to having at our fingertips is becoming harder to find but nothing that is affecting my daily life. Now I'm not discrediting the fact that this is a big deal, many people are suffering financially from it all, but I honestly didn't take MX into consideration when thiking about the oil spill. It scary because I think things will get worse before they get better, but like your TA said, you can't really predict what the case will be in Oct. So, I would say be mindful of it but don't stress. There's not much you can do about it anyway. I kinda view it the same way I view a hurricane hitting. All I can do is hope and pray it won't affect us all.

Thanks to all of you who complimented our centerpeces. We do plan on putting flowers in them FYI, but my sister says she likes the white box better. I'm torn and my mom wants whatever I want. So, for those of you who looked at them, which one do you like better the bronze or the white? I may use both, but if more people like the white I may just incorporate more of them.

Quote: Originally Posted by jazz04 Does anyone have a wedding page that you have created that I could look at. I know there are free sites but need some suggestions. This one wasn't free either, but I love the way you can set up the guestlist and it's easy to navigate for us computer illiterate people Meredith and Theo - Welcome Quote: Originally Posted by lolo Hello Ladies I put up a few pics from our wedding and a couple "naughty" ones I have to figure out how to make a small album that people can access. We have over 1000 pics. Working on getting a slideshow. Great pics!! How are you enjoying married life? Quote: Originally Posted by cjb0arder13 ALL right all my fellow Azul Beach brides!!! I just got off the phone with my travel agent. The reason there are no rooms available is because AB just pulled them all. Apparently, this has to do with the construction they're planning for 2011. I know Wendy (taylorwd) mentioned this earlier in the thread...apparently, it's going to be a bigger deal than we all thought. My TA has inquiries out to all his contacts at AB to find out how intrusive the construction will be, but he thinks this will have a major affect on bookings. We have 10 rooms reserved, but may need as many as 15, and he thinks it might be hard to get the extra 5. So...I'm not panicking. I'm not panicking. I figure if I say it enough, it'll be true. I should know something by Monday or Tuesday...if it's going to be a huge hassle to get rooms, or there's going to be massive construction going on around the time of the wedding, I'm going to book elsewhere. Which breaks my heart, because I'm in love with Azul Beach. But...I also don't want to wake up to drills and hammers every day. I'm glad you got a reason but it sucks you have to go through this added stress. Just keep in the back of your mind the fact that everything will work out so perfectly in the end that you will look back and laugh about how stressed you were. Quote: Originally Posted by michelle14 Not sure if we are booking with Azul yet but it is in my top 2 choices! What can you tell me? Well, it's kinda hard to just tell you stuff because there's sooooo much info. Do you want to know anything specific? I can say that I am glad I made the decision to get married @ AS because none of the brides have come back and complained about it being a horrible experience. Most everyone that's been married there comes back and raves about how perfect everything is. I know it's a lot, but most of your questions would probably be answered if you go back to about page 400-450 of this thread. It's a wealth of info and it may also answer questions you didn't know you had. Hope this helps anf good luck making a decision!!!

Quote: Originally Posted by taylorwd It's true, there's very little info on here about AHRs in general, and I'm sure it's even more limited if you're looking for specific stuff like Vegas. I did get two ideas from here though: the postcard guest book and using cocktail umbrellas to decorate my cupcakes. I have tons left over from Mexico so now I can put them to good use! I had been meaning to ask you guys if the resort had the cocktail umbrellas. From this, I'm assuming you brought your own? Quote: Originally Posted by MaggieandJay Hey ladies that haven't already had fabulous weddings at AS! I got an email for a webinar for the Karisma resorts for next tuesday if you want the info PM me! Hey, I tried to pm you and I couldn't.

Quote: Originally Posted by amybermuda Wicked!!! Meredith those look awesome. You must do a DIY thread on here. Congrats! Thx Wendy and Amy! You just don't know how long it took me to post what I did. I'll try to post a DIY but I have no clue what I'm doing....so not tech savvy!

Lindz, Really cute pics and I like the movie you put together. Good job!! Oh, and I wanted to tell you I'm going stay @ The Roosevelt this weekend. I can't wait!!

So, I'm gonna try this again. These are the centerpieces my mom and I have been working on. Let me know what you think. Putting it in a Word doc was the only way I could make them fit. Attachment 5147 centerpieces.doc

Quote: Originally Posted by beaz2be I can only hope that I am nearly this organized when I reach the same point in planning that you're at! Good work! Can't wait to see the centerpieces. I'm trying to decide if I'll end up bringing mine with etc. The ones from Lomas seem so pricey. Are you packing all the stuff with you?? Organized?! It's all an illusion. The main reason I was hoping someone would take over the to-do list was to make me more organized. I kinda feel an obligation to get stuff done once I post it on here. It's definitely motivation. Quote: Originally Posted by mmc1105 Very true, it is a Maggie Sottero and I got it 50% off the listed price so I can probably sell it... I'm still waiting for my May 6 2011 confirmation, and trying to figure out what to do for the STDs. I'm thinking I might just design a postcard and order from Vistaprint since they have a special right now, you get 100 for free! These girls are incredibly helpful, you will tons of info on here I'm sure you shouldn't have a problem selling a Maggie. I would just hate for you to keep 2nd guessing and on your wedding day be mad at yourself for not doing what you REALLY want. As far as STDs, my TA did the ones on Vista Print for me. We were able to put a pic on it and everything. It wasn't what I wanted but it did help with the budget. I spent the $ on personalized stamps for our invites instead.

Ok so I literally posted every single pic on my computer somehow. I was gonna post the pics of the centerpieces but that obviously didn't go well. I'll try again tomorrow.

So, I was about to post the pics of my centerpieces but cannot figure it out. I'll try again tomorrow but it seems like when I upload, every single pic from my computer is uploaded. Who knows what I did....so computer illiterate centerpieces.zip

Meredith's To-Do List 1. Go to Hobby Lobby for centerpiece ideas - DONE!! (about to post pics) 2. Order his ring - HE KEEPS CHANGING HIS MIND SO I'LL WAIT 3. Insure my ring - HE CAN'T FIND THE APPRAISAL 4. Decide on wedding insurance - LEANING TOWARD NO 5. Cocktail party decor - WAITING TO SEE IF AMY AS ANY GOOD BUYS 6. Buy shirts for flower girl and ring bearer - IN THE SHOPPING CART 7. Come up with aisle decor - LEANING TOWARD USING PETAL CONES 8. Buy/make invites - SPROULLIE DESIGNS EMAILED TODAY Meredith's new list 1. Insure my ring 2. Cocktail party decor 3. Follow up on invites 4. Work on AHR 5. Come up with ideas for BM's shirts 6. Decide on menu for reception 7. Get thread for welcome bag monograms

Quote: Originally Posted by amybermuda If you already have them booked for the ceremony, you could try to negotiate on site to move them to the reception area - ie tell them you're wiling to pay more cash for the set up fees for the hassle of moving them. When you have your meeting with the onsite and Lomas coordinators, you pay any balance you owe (spa services, extras, etc) and you also have to pay their set up fee (determined at your meeting depending on everything you have for them to set up). The set up fee must be paid in cash. The rest of the balance I paid using a credit card (only Visa & MasterCard). The WCs probably pocket the cash - so maybe you can sweeten the pot for your coordinator who might be willing to bend the chair rules for a hundred bucks or so? Maybe worth the try?? It was my initial idea to just wait until I get the the resort and see what happens. Like I said, I don't HAVE to have them, just figured it would be a nice addition. Problem is, I was gonna pull the "you didn't tell me that card" because I have an email where I blatantly asked if I'd have to pay twice and she never answered me. She just re-quoted the price. I know it would be a long shot buy gotta try. Quote: Originally Posted by amandamarieb That's what I was worried about. I guess I'll just book them for the ceremony and try my darndest to get them to move to the reception. I just gannot pay 1500+ for chairs. FI would die!!! I know, I feel the same way. But then again. AS is so not willing to budge when it comes to money, I'm not really all that surprised. Please keep me posted on your head way them and I'll do the same! My thought exactly. I'm booking them for the ceremony and will totally bribe to have them moved. Thanks for the advice! I would definitely say that if you go them for $5 that a GREAT deal. Mine were still $12 and she wouldn't budge on that. I hadn't gotten my TA involved because it wasn't that big of a deal for me. Figured I'd use negotiating power for stuff I can't live without. Quote: Originally Posted by KittenHeart She sent me a message on FB saying she was banned for soliciting a TA... not sure exactly what that means but she's banned until sometime in July she said. She'll be back! We planned on having 2 couples go with us, then my mom and brother wanted to come so DH invited his parents and sister and brother-in-law and then it expanded and I have 30+ people coming now... how crazy is that? I have her email address if you need it Amanda. Amy, you guys really are having 3 weddings!! Jealous!!! Quote: Originally Posted by amcferron Hi ladies!! So, I had my mind set on Azul Sensatori and was getting ready to book it, but then started looking at Dreams Riviera Cancun. Imagine that..... second guessing where to have my wedding!!! Has anyone been to both resorts and have any comments I've never been to either one, but my TA raved about AS and just didn't really have anything bad to say about DRC. Her enthusiasm sealed the deal for me. Quote: Originally Posted by taylorwd We had a bit of a set-back this weekend. Our baker essentially fired us and now I'm scrambling to find someone. Long story short, it's the outcome I wanted because I never liked this company from the beginning. As soon as I sent them our deposit check I regretted locking in with them. The only reason we kept them is because they already had our money. We're super stoked to be getting our money back and not have to deal with them anymore, but I'm really, really, really pissed at the reason she gave for doing it. She is WRONG and a LIAR and needs to read her own contract. I was so mad it kept me awake most of the night last night, and I'm thinking to myself, "This crazy ***** is not worth losing sleep over so let it go!" Grrrr. Isn't there a cake place in Austin that's on Amazing Wedding Cakes? Not sure if they're wayyy overpriced, but I want to help and that's all I got. Quote: Originally Posted by meghan What is everyone getting their maid of honours or bridesmaids for gifts? I bought their shoes, flip flops for after the ceremony, jewelry for the ceremony, going to pay to get their makeup done and going to make them shirts when I come up with a good idea for them. I feel like I should do more, but don't have any really good ideas yet. Check out The Knot Shop. They usually have good sales. Tiffany jewelry sounds great but expensive. Maybe you can check out the clearance section at a really nice jewelry store in your area. Sometimes they have really nice options. Quote: Originally Posted by mmc1105 Hey ladies! I went to a Brides Against Breast Cancer event on Friday and ended up buying a dress! It was the first on I tried on, and my wedding is a year away. I loved the way the dress fit, but wasn't crazy about the neckline. The ladies told me that the top could be altered, but now I am having second thoughts!!! You can always re-sell the dress if you don't want to use it as a TTD, but just like AmyB said....don't settle. Quote: Originally Posted by jazz04 I have just decided on Azul Sensatori! Yeah! Date June 11 2011. Right now we are getting the invite list together but trying to decide whether to send out save the dates and wanted to know what others have done for destination weddings. What else should I be doing? So clueless!

Quote: Originally Posted by bigboponthebeach Mornin' Ladies!!!! Just stopping in to say hello to you all and to wish you all a wonderful weekend of planning and task - doing! ;-) I was checking in on you guys via the last few pages and it sounds like everyone is in full progress mode. I was able to get reassigned to a new DW.com TA, Karilyn Barnett, and I freakin' LOVE her already!!!! We spent two hours on the phone the other night and she has revived my enthusiam about the wedding and the AS. My previous TA was gracious enough to send a "best wishes to you" email to us, which was kind, yet akward. Anywho, we are moving along and I've got an alchemy out on etsy for our STD's. I am actually feeling behind the curve ball, because we officially have less than 12 months left, but it is what it is........ Anyway, I just wanted to stop in and say hello and wish you all a fantastic weekend!!! xoxoxo I'm glad you found someone easier to work with and easing your mind about is always a + Quote: Originally Posted by amybermuda Glad you got a good TA. They will make things easier for you. I just decided on a Honeymoon location! We are staying at the Excellence Playa Mujeres Aug 28-Sept 4. It looks so awesome. Secrets Maroma was about the same price, and thats where I thought I would go, but I really fell in love with the Excellence. I am using a friend's TA who is great, so much better than my crazy wedding lady. She said any sale any drop in price we will get, no need to rebook or anything. Have a great weekend everyone! I will be working on my planning thread this weekend. I need to do it now or else I will just forget everything! I'm glad you found a honeymoon location. I looked it up and it looks awesome. I'll definitely be waiting for a review and maybe we'll put that on our list for our honeymoon (FI's not budging on Zoetry ). Quote: Originally Posted by amandamarieb Ladies that have already been married, this one's for you! What do you think the chances are that I'll be able to convince (or that they'll be kind enough on their own) the onsite WC to have my chivalri chairs moved from the ceremony on the sky deck to my reception at plaza zavaz for the set-up up fee? I am having 70 guests and its not in my budget to order them twice but I am sooo obessed I cannot do without them. I know that they are def in for my ceremony as I cannot imagine looking back at pictures and seeing any other chairs there. (Again, I am going for the antique look/feel and the other chairs just won't cut it.) I am having a cocktail reception between the ceremony and reception somwhere other than the reception site. (They are also moving my ceremony flowers down and don't want my guests to be there as they set up) so there should be enough time to have htis done. My WC told me I had to order chairs twice but hoping you'll think that I'll be able to work something out once I am there. Thanks! This really sucks and I'm going to try to get them to do this also. I'm not as determined as you though. I can take it or leave it if they give me too much resistance. However, if I make some headway with my request I'll definitely keep you in the loop. I must say that if Amy didn't get what she wanted with the time she had to get it, I'm thinking we may be disappointed. It really aggravates me that we are paying so much extra (for the Sky Deck) and I'm not sure about you but I'm not really using the stuff that comes with it (i.e. the programs, bouquet, hell I'm not even using the officiant). I just feel like they could at least do this for us. Quote: Originally Posted by meghan Oh my goodness, there has been so much chit chat I have missed in the passed 2 days! You girls have been busy! Yes, I am next! I can't believe I leave in 2 weeks!!!! I do not even have everything done, and I am starting to stress! I have my bachelorette party tonight, which will be good, cuz I need some stress relieved! I have report cards to finish right now, as well as finishing last minute wedding stuff. I can't believe after 2 years I am only 2 weeks away! (so many cheers today) Have fun @ your bachelorette party!! 2 weeks? Geesh, you're almost there!!

Quote: Originally Posted by amandamarieb AW, THANKS! Me too! So not fun to watch my boy suffer like this! Weird thing is, I've been fine. Knocking on wood right now. And yes, I realize I have got to figure out how to multi quote. I've done it once but haven't been able to do it since. Oh and I didn't even get to multi quote everything I wanted to reply to. I stink at using this forum I agree! It does take some getting used to. I'm sure I'm not using all the features that its capable of. Someone mentioned getting email updates....nope don't get those!