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As sad as it is ladies, there are many more people in this world that let their ignorance (lack of knowledge) rule them. I was told that my FFIL wasn't coming to our wedding through the grapevine. And the reason.....wait for it.....he doesn't want to be kidnapped by any Mexican drug lords!! Little does he know, they would give him right back! The kicker of this whole scenario is, we live in New Orleans. Can we say top 5 cities as far as murder rate for as long as I can remember??!! But they're all soooo excited to come here for Mardi Gras. So, I say f--k trying to make others happy and be as selfish as you wanna be!!

I would like to add to the praise that you have received for creating this forum. You are amazing! I know people say things simply to be polite but I have to say that without this forum I would be a deer in the headlights when it comes to planning my wedding. Not to mention I wouldn't have met all of the wonderful ladies here. So....THANK YOU and I'm looking forward to the updates!

Great pics!! I love the ones underwater.

Quote: Originally Posted by murmel No extra parking charge. It is valet parking, and we just tipped the valet/luggage men. Mind you the car usually ended up being parked just at the side of the main entrance...we could have taken 5 extra steps and gotten the car ourselves! LOL We only had it for 2 days as well. Keep meaning to check my reciepts, but we had guests, so I will try in the next couple of days. No transport/taxis are at the resort. If you need one, you'll have to get the luggage men to call one for you. However there are usually a few parked just outside on the roadway. I think they sit there hoping for a call. From what we saw it usually took about 5-10 minutes. Not sure what the prices are though. Thanks for that info! I appreciate it. Quote: Originally Posted by KittenHeart Hey Ladies, I put up my post wedding for sale items thread, PM if if there's anything you ladies want! http://bestdestinationwedding.com/fo...ng-sale-61951/ Do you mind telling me where you got your keycard holders and wrist bungees from? Quote: Originally Posted by amandamarieb ME TOO! There were a lot of things on my qualifying list for the resorts I looked at but top 3 was a ceremony not on the beach.I hate sand.I thought it was weird but you girls are making me feel better. Ditto on the sand Ladies!! I have had so many people look at me like I'm crazy. Whenever I mention DW they automatically assume beach. They make comments like, "Oh, a beach wedding is gonna be so beautiful!" When I say no, I hate sand they usually have this dumb look on their faces like "what's the point, then!" I find it kinda funny now. Quote: Originally Posted by amybermuda Hi Ladies! Before I go back and read what's been going on, I wanted to write you to say I just had super fun AHR! Quote: Originally Posted by amybermuda annnnnnnnnddddd my slideshow is up! I am obsessed!!! Amy & Mark | May 14th 2010 | Azul Beach Hotel, Puerto Morelos Mexico I'm sorry to hear about your stress the day of your AHR. That really sucks but I'm glad it was fun for you in the end....plus you have those amazing photos to look at now so everything should be alright in your world!! Were they there in time for you to incorporate them at the AHR?

Quote: Originally Posted by mzgillis316 Hi Ladies, its been such a looonng time since I've visited the blog I have to go back to page 650 to catch up LOLOL my wedding is in December the countdown begins and I've done NOTHING :/ I also just found out my WC Cecile is no longer with the resort they have assigned me to Kiara Marcano....does anyone else have her? Cecile was Fantastic and answered every email within 24 hours im spoiled another question to everyone I was told our chairs come with the SKy Deck wedding but will we have to pay for the chairs at our reception at the plaza?? I had Cecile too and she was always prompt. That's how I knew something wasn't right even before I found out she was gone from the ladies here. My new WC is Carolina tho so hopefully it will work out ok for the both of us. With the Sky Deck, the chairs and chair covers are included (12 I think). You have to pay for any additional beyond that from my understanding. For the reception, the chairs would be included but not the covers. Yes, as silly as it sounds, the chairs for the different events are not created equal!

Wow! It ONLY took me 2 hrs to catch up!!! Quote: Originally Posted by msmarmar123 I had an American Bulldog before Baby G...her name was Princess Jasmine Peanut Butter Smooches Rescued her when she was about 1.5 and one night (April 2009) I woke up and she had passed away sometime during the night. I am soooo sorry to hear that! She was really cute! Quote: Originally Posted by *lyndsey* Hi All, I've been away on holiday for a week & have had to catch up with my reading on here! We booked our wedding at the beginning of May and sent the wedding pack away about 7 weeks ago....we were told it would take a maximum of 8 weeks but still do not have a confirmed wedding date. i am so stressed already, there are 40 of us in total flying out & staying in mexico for 2 weeks for the wedding. we have one big party for thr family and then others booked separately as couples. on the family booking 2 of my friends booked on it as they were both bridesmaids and it worked out cheaper for my sister to pretend one of her kids was in the room with them. anyway one of my friends has now told me she has to cancel (long story) its not really her fault but i think she should have thought things through more when booking. now there is around £800 extra to be paid as it messes up the rooms. my fiance & I will end up having to pay this i feel stressed out & my weddings not even confirmed! ahhhhh lynds x I'm so sorry to hear this. I know it will all work out in the long run. Just another bump in the road. This will make you really appreciate it all in the end. Quote: Originally Posted by beaz2be So far I'm a bit indifferent about Carolina to be honest. Her turn around time is usually a day or so (although sometimes longer)... She doesn't really seem to be a wealth of knowledge or very eager to try and get a girl a good deal (this comment from various discussions with her)... BUT she is very precise with her answers to my questions, never misses an answer and I'm hopeful that as we move closer to my date and I'm going back and forth more and more with her and getting to know each other that things will continue to improve. - - definitely don't have any serious COMPLAINTS about her at all so far. I'm along for the ride with you now. Just found out yesterday that she's my new WC. Quote: Originally Posted by kortneysmith I am freaking out just a little. My WC was Cecile. After several emails with no response I called and they told me she was no longer with the company. I spoke with a man who said he was the manager and now I can not remember his name. Have any of you ladies dealt with him and if so, do you remembe his name? He said he was going to email me my new WC's info but I have not yet received anything. I tried to call today and was on hold for 30 min with no response. My wedding is in October and I need to make some decisions and FAST but can not do so due to the change in WC. Oh, what to do? Ok, Kortney, I feel your pain! I also had Cecile and emailed Fabio over a week ago and just got an email yesterday (after my TA intervened) saying that Carolina is my new WC. Sadly, be patient and it will all work out. I know that's easier said than done especially since you're so close to your day but I'm sure it will all work out. Quote: Originally Posted by bigboponthebeach Gingerlover, aside from that link I PM'ed you, these are for you. I've been scouring inspiration boards for the past week or so just browsing for things I like. Hope these help some...... This actually makes me want to change my colors. So pretty! Quote: Originally Posted by murmel Cheetos are good! LOL The resort is far away from the local markets, about a 20 minute drive. FI and I have rented a car for the few days before our guests arrive to run the errands. The resort just valet parks your car, no problems. Cheetos are great if they're not part of your 5-star wedding cuisine! I have no clue why Cheetos were even part of my dream?! Dumb question: is there an additional charge to park a car at the resort? Do taxis pass by the resort or do you have to hire transportation when you want to leave? Quote: Originally Posted by KittenHeart I just got my Elite Banner!!! Wooo hoooo!!! Congrats!! Quote: Originally Posted by bigboponthebeach BUT, I did make one for Meredith that I was pretty proud of but for her's I used photobucket. Ohhhhhhh, thank you for the info on Puerto Morales! I really just wanted some maracas, especially for the kids. Thanks again for my inspiration board! Loved it! Check out Oriental Trading Company for maracas. They also have a fiesta section and a wedding section. I just purchased paper lanterns and parasols from here too. Cheapest I've found so far and great quality. Quote: Originally Posted by Mahalo79 yay!! We just got our date confirmed! Congrats!! Quote: Originally Posted by murmel Also have to tell you girls, my FI 'kidnapped' me yesterday for a Surprise Day. Hee hee I love Surprise Day! Very good man...so thoughtful! Quote: Originally Posted by MaggieandJay I am considering getting one of them for a cheaper package but I am lucky, My mom is a professional photographer by trade so if I want some interesting shots she is going to do those and then 2 of my guest shoot professional sports so I have them on back up as well. I just wanted to hire someone for a cheap package to do family photos and ceremony stuff. You definitely are lucky but I would also confirm the backups. Your mom may be so full of emotion that she may not be able to focus (I know mine wouldn't). Quote: Originally Posted by TLGnhci That's awesome. We do have one guy who isn't professional or anything, but takes really great pics so I was thinking of asking him to bring his camera equipment as well. That way I have at least a few "amazing" shots. ) Always great to have options! You never hear of anyone complaining about having too many pics of their wedding day. Lol! Quote: Originally Posted by amandamarieb Do you know what you are putting in yours? Right now we are doing a custom CD, puzzle books for the beach, weekend warrior kits, custom chapsticks and a welcome letter. I would like to do more but with 70+ bags, it's a lot of money and a lot of stuff to bring. Do you have any other suggestions? Yesterday I went to Dollar Tree (my 2nd home) and got hand sanitizer (3 for $1) and packs of gum (4 for $1). Pretty much everything we're putting in ours is from there so $1 or less per item. And I'm sorry you guys are having a rough time right now, but remember this too shall pass and you will be stronger when iti does.

Quote: Originally Posted by MaggieandJay I can't do my own make-up to save my life. If I tried to do fancy makeup I would probably come out looking like a $2 hooker Quote: Originally Posted by msmarmar123 He's a Bug (Part Bostyon Terrier/Part Pug). He was a rescue last year..about 4.5. This was his "profile" pic on the rescue site...I saw it and fell in love with him..knew he had to be mine His name is Baby Grinchmas (Baby..cause that's what he came with...and he looks so much like the Grinch). Actually his full name is Baby Grinchmas Theodore Pugglehead....we call call him Baby G Love Him Guess I should have read completely before I asked (didn't want my multiquote to be too long). He's cute. My FI wants a Pug and I'm not a big fan (of Pugs and most animals in general) but your dog is cuter. I have fallen in love with my BM's American Bulldog. Love him to death and think one may convert me into a dog lover....we'll see! LMAO at his name too!! Very creative...and long. Everyone thinks my FI's name is Theodore because his nickname is Theo.

Quote: Originally Posted by Mahalo79 Hello Ladies! Well, I just wanted to say hello and say that I am waiting for our date confirmation at Azul Sensatori, then it will finally be official and I'm so excited! I am so happy to be able to talk to other brides from A.S. My date would be April 25, 2011. Nice to meet you!! If you're smart, you'll make BDW your best friend (kidding!). But seriously, if you take the time to read from about page 400 and learn how to navigate you will have a wealth of info at your fingertips. I really don't even use any of the sites I initially signed up for since there are so many good ideas and helpful ladies here. Quote: Originally Posted by msmarmar123 I am still having trouble with mine...Chong..how did you finally get it to not say invalid? Lol! What kind of dog is that? Quote: Originally Posted by KittenHeart The WC onsite give you the web address when you meet them onsite. Just know that the chances of it actually working is about 10%. My mom was the only one out of everyone I gave it to that actually got through to the webcam and you can't hear anything on it, it's not the greatest quality. This sucks! How will I be able to tell everyone to tune in? And if it doesn't work? Thats one of the reasons we chose the Sky Deck. Ughh! The frustration!! Quote: Originally Posted by ~Nicole~ I don't know who was asking about Tiffany or what the story was behind her, but she was my WC and she was dumb as F***. I don't know her but this made me laugh Quote: Thanks for the advice. I am going to email her now and let her know the changes I want. No more asking. I have got things to cross of my list damn it and this asking and waiting a week or two for an answer is for the birds. can you ladies tell that I have had it today? Forgot to mention that I called my FI on my way to work this am to make sure that he had gotten ahold of the last groomsmen yet to buy his suit. And then he alerted me to the problem that two of these aholes, I mean groomsmen (joking, I do love them all) have been slacking and now the suit is not avialble in their sizes. Honestly, melt down does not describe the way I feel right now. I am more like a valcano ready to erupt. And today's my son's 1st birthday. This morning was just perfect, we played and open presents, went out to breakfast and now all of this. I swear, I am not going to let a moronic TA and slacking groomsmen ruin this day for me. Chin up. Amanda, I'm sorry you were having a bad day. I hope today is better for you but I feel your pain. STILL no word from Fabio and I think FI is getting his hopes up when it comes to his groomsmen. Only 3/5 have booked for the wedding and his bachelor weekend in Miami was cancelled because they couldn't make it all of a sudden. They suck and they're irresponsible (that's a whole other story) and when I mention it I'm the bad guy. I just think he doesn't want to admit they don't have his best interest at heart. So, at least you can say you love all of your groomsmen (showing you the bright side) because I cannot say the same. I tolerate them and that's about it. Quote: Originally Posted by beaz2be YAY YAY YAY!!! So glad you got your date. P.S. your to do's make me nervous. Our date is not far behind yours and I am sooo far from finalizing the wording for our invitations. To be honest, I'm kinda trying to put a lot of that stuff off until the summer's over (and hopefully my life slows down a bit, at least on the weekends) Don't feel bad about Maggie's to do's, I'm still in the process of ordering my invites and it's still going to take them 3-4 weeks to be ready! Maggie is definitely an over-achiever! Lol. Quote: Originally Posted by beaz2be PPS - It's my birthday today and I just looked at my profile thing on the side and my age has changed. BOO! haha Quote: Originally Posted by thefuturemrslutz Mine was yesterday! Turning 29...on a MONDAY! OUCH! haha I really did have a great day though! HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY!!! We're all the same age. I turn 29 on Dec 4th. Quote: Originally Posted by daniepps A friend of a friend just got back from the resort last week and said the food is great. She did say the drinks were watered down though but that shouldn't be a problem at an all-inclusive. You can just ask for an extra shot on the side or something. Quote: Originally Posted by murmel We visited in April and the food was amazing! As for the drinks, I didn't find them watered down at all. Plus I was thrilled they make Caesars! (really a Canadian thing...) And the Mojiotos at the Mojioto bar are super yummy Never did try the house wines though...we rather ordered bottles or did the wine parring at Le Clique. The resort by far had the best food at an all inclusive I have been to so far. That was one of the main reasons we picked the Sensatori, since FI is a former chef and food is really important to him. Thanks Ladies! I know we've heard nothing but good things about everything including the food but I'm having those dreams where something goes wrong in the kitchen and my guests have to eat Cheetos and dumb stuff like that. Just trying to ease my mind a little more. Quote: Originally Posted by gingerlover36 PS my FI told me today that he hated the color combo I have been doing. Thanks love for this tidbit that would have been helpful when i showed you the color board 2 months ago! I luckily haven't done much but did have everything envisioned a specific way and got samples of invites and stuff like that. What are/were your colors?

Amanda - it will all work out. Just do one thing at a time. Do you know what you want to do for your OOT bags? Ordered yet? Maybe I can help you with that cause that's what I'm working on as we speak....lanyards for key card holders to be specific. How were your parties?

I like Island Princess too and its a plus that there's a personal connection that you can share regarding the name. That's better than pulling one from thin air IMO.

I'm sorry to hear this. I know we all want to be nice and help out others in need but the added stress on you is unfair. I hope it all works out. I see you still have 25 days so I'm sure you can come to some type of agreement.

Quote: Originally Posted by sebitasalejo And that Enzo... I am sick of his NJ BS meowmeow I know!!!! What grown a## man refers to himslef that way?!

Try J. Crew and Anne Taylor also. They have a bridesmaids section and usually have really nice things on sale. Finding all of the sizes you need may be your biggest issue though.

I like #1 but love the sash on #2. Have you thought about adding a sash to #1? Then you'll have the best of both worlds!

I was wondering if anyone that did the Sky Deck can tell me the info for tuning in to the live stream on our wedding day? I wanted to include this in our invites but STILL haven't gotten a response from a WC.

Chong - Don't act like you don't know me if you do see me!! Lol. Spanx? I know you can get them from Saks, Dillard's, etc. I don't think it should cost that much. I would say it may run you around $100 max for a good pair unless he knows something I don't. There are knock-offs that may not work as well but if you stick to the Spanx brand you should be fine. There's also a brand named Flexees (Macy's) that are pretty good too. Looks like you need to go undergarment shopping and see what's the most comfortable for you. Bring them with you when you have your dress fitting and see which works best. Check out ShopStyle for Fashion and Designers - Shoes, Jewelry, Dresses & Clothes and type in Spanx and all the different styles and where to buy them will come up. HTH!

I'm reading this a little late but wanted to let you know that my heart goes out to you. When I read your post my heart literally sunk! You and your family have my deepest sympathy and I pray that you have found the strength to move forward with your life AND your wedding planning. I know it may seem insensitive to move forward so soon but if your sister is anything like most, she would want you to have the wedding you've always dreamed of and for you to be happy. I know it must be hard but I pray that it will get better.

Chong & Beaz2be - It's nice to finally put faces with names. I'm glad you girls figured it all out (posting your avatars). I know it was a pretty trying experience for me.

Quote: Originally Posted by thefuturemrslutz http://bestdestinationwedding.com/fo...invites-61664/ Quote: Originally Posted by murmel What beautiful looking invitations. When is comes to wording...sometimes simple is better. Don't stress yourself out to much! Most people will just be thrilled to see your wedding invitation, and as long as it as all the info, you're good to go! Quote: Originally Posted by taylorwd I second this, Meredith. Simple is good! Truly, the only people who will notice the wording on your invites is you and FI. Most people just admire the overall look of the invite as a whole and don't pay attention to the wording. We spent sooo much time trying out different wording when we probably should have been doing something else! Speaking of your invites, love them!!! They're very classy and bright. Did you go with the colors shown on Etsy or customize your own? Thanks for the advice ladies! I will keep it simple. I found some wording last night that ties in with the proposal. It talks about journeys. So, I think I'm gonna use that. Wendy - we did customize. The gatefold and envelope will be bronze and the bellyband and rhinestones will be purple. Quote: Originally Posted by amybermuda I keep checking Claudia's website for my pro pics and still nothing - its been over 7 weeks - I am dying to see my slide show & wanted to show it to everyone this Saturday at the AHR. Do you think you can email her and try to at least get an electronic copy so you can make a slide show or something? I'd hate for you not to be able to show off your wedding to the people who couldn't go. Quote: Originally Posted by msmarmar123 It's my 150th Post I'm a Junior Member! Congrats!! I remember that feeling. Quote: Originally Posted by chong Thanks!!! I am not mailing anything to Mexico then... the towels are really taking a lot of room than we have expected. I can't really divide the luggages between my family members and friends since they are all flying from different locations. We are the only one in Houston! I guess we have to figure out how many bags we can actually check in between two of us. Didn't you mention that you're going to have a shower or a bachelorette party? Maybe you can bring your towels with you and give them out of others to bring then. Quote: Originally Posted by beaz2be I just found out one of our guests (a friend from work) booked a trip to AS for this week. A last minute sale - she says she'll take pics of anything I want and go check it all out. Anyone have any requests they'd like to pass on? I'll have to think of exactly what I want to know about. I feel like there's so much information on this forum tho' that I don't really know what I'll need her to look into. :-) Still, fun to have a scout. My main concern is the food. Ask her to take notes and tell you her favs.

Wow Lindz, once again....great job! They're beautiful!!

Do any of you ladies have recommendations for wording for our invites. They're a little formal so I'm thinking the wording should be formal too? Let me know what you think. A Little Bling Wedding Invitation by LesliesCardart on Etsy[]=tags&includes[]=title

Meredith's to do's: 1. Invites, invites, invites - ORDERED...JUST HAVE TO COME UP WITH WORDING 2. Get thread for welcome bag monograms - DONE BY THE LADY DOING THE EMBROIDERY 3. Stay on FI about menu 4. Buy luggage tags for welcome bags - PURCHASED FROM ANOTHER BDW BRIDE 5. Buy paper lanterns and candle holders - LANTERNS, YES, CANDLE HOLDERS, NO 6. Start looking for gifts for my helpers 7. Book cigar roller for reception - DONE (TOO BAD CECILE IS STILL M.I.A.) 8. Buy confetti for ceremony Meredith's new to do's 1. Come up with wording for invite 2. Stay on FI about menu 3. Buy candle holders 4. Purchase gifts for our helpers 5. Buy confetti for ceremony 6. Email Fabio about Cecile 7. Email TA about Fabio and Cecile 8. Buy remaining items for OOT bags 9. Start on song lists 10. Buy LED lights

Quote: Originally Posted by thefuturemrslutz Old Bay is DELICIOUS!!! WE cook fish almost every night (due to our wedding diet)...a little salt, pepper, old bay, and lemon juice makes it taste soooo good!!! Guess I'll have to try it. I'm not even sure if they sell it down here. At least I've never seen it before. Quote: Originally Posted by murmel As for OOT bags. I am sewing all the bags myself, so I can customize the colors. And other than a few small items, we play on buying a lot of the fillers once we arrive in Mexico (we get there 3 days ahead of guests). That's how we are trying to cut down bulk, but I am sure it will still take a small duffel at least for me to take it down with us. Sewing the bags yourself?! How crafty? I wish I was as crafty as some of you ladies. Quote: Originally Posted by thefuturemrslutz In case you are interested...my pre-travel mailers... http://bestdestinationwedding.com/fo...mailers-61643/ You did a great job Lindz!

Amazing Lindz! You are so crafty. They came out really nice.

Quote: Originally Posted by bigboponthebeach That is funny! And the sad thing is, when you start connecting things in your "real" life with those of the forum....when you say them out loud, like, "Oh, I heard about that on the forum!" people look at you like you're crazy. LOL I find myself referring to the forum frequently and my close family and friends look at me like I'm visiting the underworld. LOL Mine too! It's sad when you start to 2nd guess whether you should say where you got a piece of info. I'll just say "oh guess what I found out", and of course someone will ask well how did you? I just want to scream, "where do I find out all my info? The forum!!" Quote: Originally Posted by KittenHeart I'll PM you regarding the vases :)Don't give up girl! Everything can be negotiated, don't be mean (not that you would) but it's instinct to get pushy or rude and that doesn't work. I'm in sales and I'll work my butt off for someone that's not an ahole to me but treats me like a human being instead of someone who works for them. If someone's an ahole, my commission on the sales just seems like it doesn't even matter anymore and I don't care if they get the product... people get me on their team to help them, golden, I'll take perfect care of them forever. This is how Kiara and I worked out, the two of us were a team. I'd ask how her weekend was, send her pictures of me on Halloween and she'd do the same back, we became friends, she really is a great girl but she get's freaked out and yelled at by brides every day, so if you don't stand out, you're just another bride to tiptoe around. This is hysterical!! I love it! I too on Thursday came over my BF's house to make shrimp & veggie kabobs and she pulled out Old Bay and said "use this" and I immediately think of Amy of course and I was like, "what, you've NEVER used this before" she's like, "I know I just bought it!" Seriously we've been cooking with each other once a week for 12 years and this is the first time she's ever used it. Not gonna give up either. My philosophy is kill them with kindness. All of my jobs prior were in sales so I know how I want to be treated as a salesperson. I too would never go above and beyond for those that acted like they were "entitled" or rude so I know what you mean. Too bad I don't have a WC at the present monent to kill with kindness. Hopefully Fabio can sort it all out soon. Bet ya would've never even paid attention to the change of seasoning if AmyB didn't post that pic, huh?! Lol. Quote: Originally Posted by chong hmm.. how do you add avatar picture? I am using photobucket and every time I upload the picture, it says INVALID! so frustrating!!! I saved mine in one of the accepted formats and uploaded it. Sorry I can't tell you step by step cause it took me FOREVER! Quote: Originally Posted by chong By the way... I had a very long and exciting day. I had few of my girlfriends over at my place and we packed OOT bag, put ribbons on stuff, cut tags and made some props! I am so thankful that they were willing to help doing some of the tedious work for only food and drinks! and.. of course for a good time. I feel like I am getting so close to the wedding. I cannot wait till I am done planning! One of the things we made was the fake mustache and lips as props for our guest picture book. It was so much fun!!! FYI - I have reached the junior status!!! Horay!!!! Sounds like very productive fun! And congrats on junior status!