I am a first time parent to 7 month old twins. I've been told (by my extremely uptight sister), that I'm a very laid back parent. With that being said, I would have gone without hesitation to my siblings destination wedding with my babies... AND I HAVE TWO! Heck, especially if she's breastfeeding! She wouldn't have to worry about water contaminating the formula. We are planning our destination wedding when our girls will be 2 years old (only so they'll be walking and can participate), but most of the resorts are extremely accommodating to those with little ones. They'll provide cribs, strollers, toys, etc. When they're that little is the time to go, it's free for them!