see I don't have that problem - my FI LOVES shopping . . .I on the other hand am the type where I go in, get what I want and leave LOL we are complete opposites but I will say when it comes to the wedding he thinks that we have tons of time and everything can wait. I understand I still have 14 months but time has been flying, just yesterday I realized that we have been engaged for almost 7 months already and it just seemed like yesterday!
I'm hoping after I get my dress this fall that he will be motivated enough to get his outfit with his groomsmen.
I think men don't want to do it because we are telling them or should I say "asking" them. We need to make it out like it was their idea to go shopping and than maybe just maybe they will go with it lol