Quote: Originally Posted by CristiandJamie I've been to some showers were EVERYONE attending gets some type of gift (wine stopper, small pic frame, etc)... I know to bring a hostess gift but am I responsible for giving everyone a gift?
Also do you get the main person a hostess gift or all your BMs? My hostess said they did not want me to contribute any favors or anything to the gift bags. But I'm stubborn so I plan to adding a little something to the gift bags. The way I see it is that everyone is coming to shower me and I want to show appreciation. I was thinking something small like cute pen/notepad set etc.
I plan on doing something for my hostesses. Not sure what yet, but the shower gel is a winner!!
Quote: Originally Posted by Thomasjsgirl But, what if your shower is a surprise (I mean a real surprise, as in you knew absolutely nothing!). Do you buy a thank-you gift afterwards? A gift after would be appreciated and unexpected. After all you were surprised!