Hi Irish, I'm a fellow Jersey girl getting married in St. Thomas in May of 2012! My fiance and I just booked an estate and will be hosting our reception there. We have not made a decision on the ceremony location, but are hoping we will be able to host it at a resort where our guests will stay and we can host the welcome dinner. You will find that this site is a great resource and will be a huge help to you. Some of the resorts that I have come across in my search are: Marriott Westin Ritz Carlton Secret Harbour Bolongo Beach Emerald Beach Resort - Best Western I hope this is of some help and wish you luck on your search. If you have any questions feel free to reach out to me. I can't say enough about how calm and happy I've felt since we set the date and picked the venue. I feel like now we can just relax and enjoy all the other stuff.