You sound like me also. We are still deciding on a destination. I have gone back and forth on so many different venues, places, my FI is just leaving it to me to weed out all the unmentionables cause he cannot keep up anymore. This forum is a very good place to be when you don't know where to begin. A lot of the ladies on here have a lot of experience in planning a DW and all are very helpful.
Happy planning!