Default Your Marriage in 29 Questions
1. How old are you?32
2. At what age did you/will you get married? I'll be 33
3. Do you have children? nope
4. Did you think you would marry the person you are with now? I hoped, but it's been a long crazy road
5. Were you ever engaged or married to someone other than the person you are with now? no
6. Do you want a garden wedding, beach wedding, or the traditional church wedding? beach
7. Where did you/will you get married? either Mexico or Dominican Republic
8. First dance - classic waltz, slow and sexy, or fast and spicy? neither of us are really dancers so who knows what will happen
9. How many guests did you/will you have? between 35-45
10. Do you want/did you have an extravagant wedding or a simple wedding? simple
11. Vows - traditional or something you make up on your own? we're thinking traditional for our private ceremony, but symbolic for our DW
12. How many layers of cake did you/will you have? would rather have cupcakes so I don't know.
13. Is/was your wedding/reception at a hotel? a AI resort
14. When did you/will you get married - sunrise, mid-day, sunset? either midday or for sunset
15. Did you/will you have your reception outdoors or indoors? I'd love to have it outdoors but with a covered option, but we'll see
16. Plan every detail down to the napkins or let someone else decide? let my WC decide
17. How did/will the bride enter? not sure yet
18. Song to walk down the aisle to: tossing around a few ideas
19. Song to make your exit: I have one I like, but haven't told FI yet
20. Will you/did you have a solemn ceremony or a light one? light
21. At what age did you think you would get married? never really thought about it
22. Who to invite - practically everyone or a select few? just close family and closest friends to DW possible AHR later
23. Wedding menu - fine dining or simply delicious? we just want really yummy food
24. Champagne or red wine? prefer red
25. Honeymoon right after the wedding, awhile after the wedding, or no honeymoon? depends, we're looking at mid December so we'd like to do it right away
26. Was your/will your honeymoon be at a place special to you both or somewhere brand new to you both? we're hoping brand new
27. Who will pay for the bills? it's all on us
28. Living together: Not before marriage or absolutely before marriage? for a year and a half now, over 2 years by the time the wedding arrives
29. Anything else about marriage you'd like to say? We choice DW because of costs in Chicago and because we were hoping for less stress, but trying to decide on the perfect resort for us and our family is making me crazy.