We are having an engagement party/AHR in October, a month before our wedding. We had some friends of mine throw us a surprise engagement party back in September after we got engaged but it was very small and really only my friends. So a mutual friend of both FI and I asked if they could throw us an even bigger engagement party with both of our friends and family. The guest list is the same invitees for our wedding. We are hoping those that can't make it to Turks & Caicos will make it to this party. We had to have it in October due to FI's practice and travel schedule. I'm not involved in the planning of it though as our friends want it to be a surprise again....sort of. I know it will be held at the Four Seasons, and I know the guest list is the same as our wedding, and that she will be incorporating the use of my wedding colors into it, but other than that I don't know much else about it. But I am excited! Its a non-traditional sort of engagement party/AHR but then again not much about us is traditional! LOL!