clgriffi7 , I agree with your response as that is what we did. We sent the STD magnet with the wedding date as well as the AHR date so they could save both of them. We sent one to everyone who will receive an invitation also and don't expect many to travel to Jamaica for the wedding which is fine with me. This way though, they don't feel left out and are still being asked to save the date for our reception which is only one week after we return from Jamaica. The magnet directed them to the website with all of the wedding as well as AHR information on it.