Omg, i am having that same issue, everyone is making me feel guilty about the wedding, and i've told me guest MANY times, please don't feel bad, if you can't afford it, then don't go, i really don't care who makes it just as long as i am there with my future husband...but yet they insist and then in turn are passive aggresive about the cost of everything... i just want to screm THEN DON'T GO!!!!! Geeeeez!!! i'm so glad i am not the only one... Â i'm so frustrated, and most of all i'm sick of people being rude about it when this is suppose to be a happy time in my life... Â ok had to get that off my chest!!! Â Â thanks!