Does anyone else having this issue?
Well, I don't live where I was born and raised so I am having two showers. But I am very social! So I was reading about not inviting people to your shower not invited to the wedding. Since I having a DW wedding I scaled down the invites to 125. So for the bridal showers, I only gave a list with women I wanted there who were also invited to the wedding.
So, now both of my hostess are coming to me about people I "forgot" to add. Now I am having two mega showers. I am really low key but just social. I don't want people to think it is just for gifts. AHH!!! One shower has about 50 invites and the other one 45. The exact reason I am having a DW wedding way too many people to accomodate and not hurt feelings.