Chipotle99, I agree completely. Before I met FI, I went to the gym every night without fail and ran all the time. But, slowly I started giving up gym time so we had date time and now 3 years later, I am fifteen pounds heavier. The funny thing is, though I knew we both put on weight, I didn't really realize the change in our bodies till I looked at pictures of us from a beach vacation early in our relationship and went eek, what happened to us. So glad you are all here to support us, and since we are doing it together, FI and I will hopefully be more motivated and support each other.