Quote: Originally Posted by TonyandTricia Hi ladies...I need some advice...so wedding starts at 2:00 pm. I wish is was later, but it is what it is, I guess. I'm not having a cocktail hour (don't want to pay for 1 hour of drinking at an ALL-INCLUSIVE resort), we are having a private function (I've somehow convinced myself that cocktail hour is not ok, but paying for a dinner at an all-inclusive resort is acceptable??), and I'm thinking that we will go to one of the clubs/bars to continue the celebration. So...any advice on the timeline? I only see 2 options...
2:00- wedding
2:45- champagne toast
3:00- pics
3 hour gap doing who knows what
6:00-private function (dinner, cake, some dancing if I can convince FI to pay extra for music!)
8:00- move party to bar (after we take a brief detour to our room so I can change out of my dress)
_OR_
2:00- Wedding
2:45- champagne toast
3:00- pics
3:30 or 4:00 private function
few hour break
8 or 9:00 meet at bar
neither sound that great to me because I feel bad for the guests to have a big break. I read a review on some website one time (i think Tripadvisor) where a guest at the hotel said that he saw a wedding taking place and then after the wedding was over the guests just kind of wondered around with nothing to do afterwards and he said it looked unorganized and awkward. I just don't want that to happen! Anyone else with an afternoon wedding? Any suggestions? I've thought about this too as i thought my wedding was going to be at 1:00. I would go for option 1, and definitely do the private function at night. You could stretch out the picture taking as long as you can, then everyone could go to the beach bar and have cocktails til private function....?? Sorry I dont have any better ideas