JHarris - My wedding is May 7th, and I put the RSVP for March 7th. I need to have the numbers to the resort for the final payment 45 days before the wedding, so I planned for that, plus a little extra time. People seem to know if they are coming or not by then anyway! And we have already received most of them by now and have a good idea on final numbers. I did put the meal choice on the rsvp, and I did go with two entrees. Hopefully it won't be too complicated...