My sister-in-law gave me some great advice when I was explaining to her that I didn't think he was seeing my vision for the wedding. In fact, I didnt think he really understood what the wedding was going to look like at all. She said to simply leave destination wedding magazines, brochures and anything else that I want him to look at in the magazine rack in the bathroom. It really does work! And then he feels like he is contributing and adding suggestions and ideas.