Ok - thats what im thinking... I understand if people can afford it, but the ones that can and still arent coming that pisses me off! Especially since I have gone to their weddings, wedding showers, baby showers, kids bdays, etc! Plus one of my friends husbands who we really dont like said that Mexico isnt "appealing" to him and its all drug wars down there.. Cancun/Rivieria Maya is safer then Chicago. Ok I'm done venting