We are not having an AHR, so I think we may have some type of Buck 'n Doe / Jack 'n Jill party. I have several friends and cousins, aunts and uncles that will not be able to attend the wedding, so this will be a nice way for them to party with us! Also, I think it's a nice way for those going to the wedding to get to know eachother a little better beforehand. I don't think we'll be charging money to get in... unless it is just to cover the cost of alcohol and/or food for the night. If people want to give us gifts or money, that is up to them -- we will not blatantly be trying to raise money for the wedding.