thoughts / purchases so far:
- ceramic/stainless steel mugs upon arrival
- marachas by mishka at each chair of ceremony, with tug
- personalized water at ceremony
- pashminas for ladies, cigars for guys at reception
- if I can find them cheap a couple fedora hats as well for reception
problem that I am having is I already got some pashminas in New York a month ago and since our confirmed list increased, so now I am short about 8 pashminas, I hope I can find the exact colour and size online!