We are planning between 15-20 guests so my FI & I have agreed to pay for the fishing trip for the guys but I think his parents might pick up the bill. They keep asking what they can help with. I was going to do a private rehearsal dinner but I am leaning more towards just meeting at one of the restaurants with everyone. We arrive on Tuesday, his parents on Wed, mine on Thurs, and others on Friday and the wedding is Saturday. I know I am going to have some spa time on Saturday while getting ready for our wedding @ 4.