Here is the thing...if this is something he was doing before you were married, most likely he won't change. I learned in my first marriage, don't try to change the person you are with. Now, if this behavior is recent & getting worse post-wedding then there are some things you & your DH need to talk about. I am sorry you are going through this but he needs to see it face first & decide, cut out the late night crap or ... It's not worth it to be miserable but don't think he knows how you feel if you haven't laid it out on the table. Men can be clueless when it comes to things.