Noonie! I am so sorry to hear that! But your family is right - he I'm sure wants you to go and I'm sure would feel horrible if you cancelled. If you are doing an AHR you can do all those things you would have done on your trip. This is the one time in your life you should be a little selfish and not let this ruin one of the most important days of your life! Everything will work out for you in the end - just make sure you enjoy yourself while you are there! Have fun and good luck!