I am so happy to find this thread. I am 36 and FI is 38. We are not getting married until Feb 2010 so will start trying after that - when I am 37. I def have concerns but my doctor was very positive - take vitamins, folic acid and come see me as soon as you suspect... It is a relief to read this thread and see how many others are doing this - I am not alone even though all my family has pretty much had their kids and are def wondering if I am going to get around to it!!! But as many of you have said, I now feel ready to have a baby - I've got the right guy, I've done lots of travelling, I am settled and secure...what better time to start a family?!