My fiance and I are planning a destination wedding and don't know what to do about the save the dates/invitations.
Do you send save the dates to everyone you want to invite, no matter if you know they aren't coming? I don't want family members or friends to be offended not to get a save the date if we can't foresee them making the trip. Should we or our parents tell everyone what we're planning and see if they're interested in attending first?
Our wedding will not be until June 2011 but we want to give guests as much advance notice as possible to plan and save money.
Thanks!