I went to a travel agent and got a few books on resorts. Then I used trip advisor alot. After going back the travel agent and she helpped look into what my FI and I were looking for and getting a few quotes from different resorts, that is how we decided on our all Inclusive resort. And i cannot be more please. Trip advisor though you have to take with a grain of salt though remember. There are going to be so many people wanting to just complain about everything, no mater what. I think as long as you have an open mind and just relax almost no matter where you go, and if they have "in paper" all the things you want, you should go for that place you love. Good luck!