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carolina24

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  1. as crazy as everything's gotten, it's still so sad the show's ending!!
  2. dinner....like going to the movies?
  3. we're getting married at Dreams Cancun and going Secrets Maroma Beach for the honeymoon
  4. hate! painting rooms in the house?
  5. welcome, have fun planning!!
  6. I just don't understand when it became ok for people to assume they can bring guests?!? The only person(s) invited are the ones NAMED on the invitation. Let him (or have your MOH) know that because of space/budget limits the invitation was meant for him only. I don't think there is anything wrong with putting your foot down. Personally, I only want those people who are closest to us there. His gfriend and her daughters have nothing to do with you!
  7. congrats fellow dreams bride!
  8. we were actually really "traditional" when we picked a date. It's the 24th b/c that's my bday, his bday, and Christmas Eve is very big in my family, so it's a date that's just important to us. It wasn't until I got on this forum, that I see many brides put a lot of thought into the date based on their venue, holidays, etc. I do agree that you should have it relatively close to the day you arrive though. So we will get to Cancun on the 22nd and go to our HM on the 26th.
  9. I made it clear to our single friends that only the people named on the invitations are invited. Have your mom or MOH call the people that RSVPd online and let them know. btw it is very rude to assume that you can bring a guest!!!
  10. Quote: Originally Posted by IMPPEARL We are dancing to "Stand By Me" Marvin Gaye or Ben E King. One of the origionals. oooo i like that!! We're thinking about At Last Etta James
  11. We're doing the same as well. No one except a few people know. We're signing papers, notice I didn't say 'getting married' , the Friday before we leave. I want to be in and out of the courthouse and when they ask "do you blah, blah, blah" we're just going to say "yes"! the i dos will be done in Mexico!!
  12. karen: I am so sorry that you are going through this mess. I was engaged in past. We dated for 3 years and were engaged for 9 months before I called it off. He also had an addiction: alcohol. I started finding out about lies and things he was keeping from me. I am in so much debt b/c of him. I loved him so much and I wanted to make things work. He started therapy and things got better. I moved to GA before him to get things going and it was horrible. I still didn't trust him (and I was right not to). I found out he had lied to me about work and other things basically the whole time I was in GA. I finally called things off (1 month before the wedding). Everything was booked. I had my dress, people were coming from out of the country. I had a lot of guilty feelings not only b/c of our guests, but b/c of my parents (who had paid for everything up to this point). My parents were VERY supportive when I told them I couldn't go through with it. It was the hardest thing I've ever, ever had to do and it took a loooonnng time to get over all of it; the disappointment, lying, trust issues, etc. BUT it is the BEST decision I could have made!!! To sum up (lol) He has to completely work through his addiction before he can be a good partner, the type of husband you deserve. After my failed engagement I live by this motto: I'd rather be alone than in bad company. Good luck honey. Please, please, please think this through very very well. If that little voice in your head says walk away, you need to do it.
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