Welcome back Jess! I can't wait to read your review and check out your pics! This explosion is really terrible. I think people are feeling like backing out because they are already on edge about the cartels and this is something else that makes them fear for their lives. Nevermind that it could happen somewhere else or the violence that happens at home. People are dying and that is something to be nervous about. Hopefully, since some of your weddings are farther away, people will come back around. I had a cousin who was supposed to be a BM back out due to the violence. She even convinced her parents, my aunt and uncle, not to come. I say WTF ever, they will be missing out! How about that? For my girls, I got custom made spa wraps and totes, pocket spas, earrings, necklaces, bracelets, starfish flip flops and coach wristlets. I was thinking about getting them flasks made too, I haven't decided yet. I might also take them all out. I really wanted to do something special for them because in addition to paying for their dresses, shoes and trips, they chipped in $300.00 each for my bachelorette party and bridal shower. If you want any I fo about my gifts, let me know. There's also a thread on here about BMs gifts.